Engage a detective or not? Am I a bad person if I engage a detective?
Hello,
I am struck in a divorce for ages potentially facing a huge settlement. Some say that hiring a detective to monitor her movements can put an end to all this and possibly win the case in my favor.
But, I am conflicted to do so as I still cherish the good moments I had with her from time to time and also feel like a bad person if I were to go ahead with it. On the other hand, I don't want to pay the huge settlement they are demanding too. I tried to make a deal with them but it did not work as expected.
Should I think with my mind and do what's best for me by engaging the detective or should I think with my heart, forgive her for all that she did and pay the huge settlement?
Thanks in advance.
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Sam2017
ANSWERS: 2
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thats up to you, i dont think youre a bad person for hiring one, thats what theyre for
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1. She doesnt forgive you. 2. Her legal team didnt go for a settlement. 3. You're willing to hand over a lot of money. 4. The good times are long over. 5. The ONLY ONE benefiting is her. What part of the message are you not getting? Hire the frigging detective and stop being the wuss getting walked on.
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