I saw a spirit of my dead grandma but my parents don't believe me. What should I do?
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ANSWERS: 29
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You can't make people believe in something they don't want to, if you think you know what you saw, then thats all that's important.
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She appeared to you, not them, so she must care for you. Lots of people believe in this type of thing, you just have to find them. Many people are afraid of spirits, maybe this is why your parents don't want to acknowledge what you saw.
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You should probably stop talking about it to them and trying to convince them. You will find yourself at a therapist.
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That sort of thing is not as uncommon as many think. Many loved ones who have passed, stay Earthbound for a time, to watch over their loved ones. Her visit is a great comfort to you, so dont bother trying to convince others. I think the fact you saw her, is wonderful. She is showing you she is ok, and loves you very much..
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Stop talking about because your makin your parents unhappy and losing a lot of respect because your parents probably think ur bananas
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Some people do not believe because they are afraid of something that no one on this earth who is living understand. Realize that you are blessed that she came to you and be happy about it. Do not worry about what your parents choose to believe!
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Shes coming to you, those who dont believe can see so keep it close to you always.
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I have had a similar thing happen to me. When my grandpa died I was about 4 yrs old. The evening after he was burried, I was laying in my bed thinking about him. I cant remeber much of what happened, but I do remeber seeing him and talking to him. My mom came in and saw me talking to him, But as soon as she took a step he was gone. I believe you, I think the best thing to do is to be true to yourself. You know you saw her and thats all that matters. If the subject ever arrises again and they ask you if you saw her, simply say, yes I did. They can think what they like but you know the truth...
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Trap her via GhostBusters style, then release her in your parents room as they sleep wth a strobe light and techno music blazin'. if that doesn't work, forget it , shoot them
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i always see my nan and grandad dont be scared though its just them saying hi,i was unsure at first my mum still dont belive me but i know what i have seen and that is kinda nice its a learing curve of a special gift
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Call Parentbusters! What did she say?
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Nothing. You know what you saw. If it were important that your parents know this, she would have been seen by them. You hve had a special experience. Treasure it and don't worry about if anyone else knows or accepts it.
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I agree with most everyone else. It is a very special thing that you were able to see your Grandma. It is possible that she has also been around your parents but the are unable to see her for one reason or another.
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if they start saying things never loose that faith otherwise ull ed up going mad
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what can you do? and why do you feel the need to do anything. I know this does not help, but I believe you
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Here's what you should do. understand that you seen what you felt you seen and embrace the moment. You do not have to make anyone believe you at all. relax and understand what this could mean to you personally. You know your grandmother would not be there to harm you at all. perhaps she is there to watch over you and letting you know she is watching over you. perhaps she is there to help you understand something or learn something. No one can tell you why this is something you have to figure out. are you questioning anything or having a problem that seeing your grandmother would help you understand. was she doing anything in your vision? I would not let it get to you as I am sure no harm will come from it. if you see her again smile at her see if she smiles back.
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what you saw was only meant for you, otherwise your parents would have seen her too. maybe she came to show she's watching over you, and maybe your parents didn't see her because they don't need watching over?
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it happen to me too thats why here trying to see if your answers help me understand why my greatgrandmother came to me when i was 4 yr old too . its the one thing thats going to stick in my head forever . but i feel bless that i saw her knowing that i have sumone watching over me .Make me feel surpise and you should too.
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Why do you think you need to do anything. It matters not if your parents believe you. You saw what you saw.
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Well, what you shouldn't do is keep talking to your parents about it. It may seem wonderful to you but you're talking about one of their parents, you're probably upsetting them.
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I believe you but why do you have to "DO" anything, just because your parents don't believe you. So what if they don't believe you! Does it make your grandma's spirit any less real?
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Some people can be hard to convince over others, I'm still trying to convince my paernts that they have a spirit of a man in her house. Stick to what you believe, and talk to people who will be more understanding
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you should just know that not all ghost are bad some come and visit you because they miss you and she wont harm you because she cares about you. =.]
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Depends. What were you on when you saw her? - Personally i don't so much beleive in ghosts. But if you really think you saw her maybe you should call a priest or something. Or try talking to her. A pet ghost would be cool. - Or you could quit the drugs.
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Nothing.
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Don't worry about your parents. You saw what you saw. My aunt saw her father in her bedroom door, he came to say good bye, next day they found him dead. My dad says that if you see something like that it means you are close to this person and he/she needs your help so you should pray for them. Not like "holy Mary" or something but just send them positive thoughts. My dad believes in that and he would believe you as well.
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I believe your telling the truth and not crazy. However, a lot of people don't believe in ghosts or pretend not to because they don't want to deal with the afterlife. So keep your mouth shut about your paranormal experiences or your parents will put you in a mental hospital for children. And be VERY CAREFUL about who you discuss such matters with; because a lot of people will pretend to believe you and then betray you.
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Stop dropping acid
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nothing
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