Should it?

Oh yes. I am totally distraught. This has been haunting me forever now, knowing that American men are preferring Asian girls over American Girls. Boo-hoo. I am in tears now just thinking about it. Thanks for ruining my day. *end sarcasm Now, for a bit of reality. Let's see the stats that prove that? Hmmmm, a website that shows a chart comparing the type of girl American men prefer from 5 years ago to today.

It doesnt bother me a bit, you can be with who you want. Enjoy!

Where did you find this statistic? Sounds like a crock to me.

when did this happen? i know guys are into asian girls and latin girls, but prefer? no, it doesnt bother me that some guys might prefer asian girls. I think guys might prefer an asian girl cause theyre thin and petite, which i am, and im american, half irish n german and half hispanic

its the suzie wong complex. asian girls put out more and better.

No, ridiculous generalizations don't bother me. I tend to ignore them and go on with my life.

Uhhh I'm a guy and I can say that I don't "prefer" any race over another.

As a fellow American male, I have to say the premise of your question is totally bogus. There is no basis in your statement at all. Of course, everyone has their own type, but there is no truth at all to the idea that American guys prefer Asian women. In fact, I'd say most guys seem to prefer the "all-American" girl over other types.

No not at all. all the men in America doesn't belong to me so who cares who they date/marry.

If I was American, I don't see how that should bother me whether it's true or false. I have had an American boyfriend, though, and I'm a white girl, so I guess he doesn't fit your criteria.

I don't think that's true. If anything, men are finally STARTING to be attracted to asian women period in this country. Most guys I know are not really attracted to them. I find a lot of them to be very beautiful, but in this country, we want girls with big beautiful eyes, big butts and big breasts, and those are not characteristics generally found on the average Asian woman. We're just not used to their look completely. And besides, American girls are in fact, THE best in the world. We have every flavor you could want so...*shrug* I don't know how you're going to find any better.

I don't care. They can have you.

does it bother you that more of us are preferring well-rounded, mature, intelligent guys?

IF that's true, then I'm glad - there are more "American" (by that, I assume you mean "white") girls for me! As a white American, I find myself far more attracted to white women than to Asians. Asians generally don't have a very appealing bone structure to me, and are often too thin and waifish for my taste. I like curves, breasts, and a little good meat in selected places. I also find a fair white complexion is more attractive, to me. I know that the general stereotype about Asian girls is that they can be submissive, but that doesn't appeal to me - I'm a very dominant guy, and having a girl that's super-submissive would just be way too much relative submissiveness for me. One more thing - I like the "American" accent (the generic kind you hear on TV). By the way, my preference for white girls isn't race-driven. My first, and probably dearest, girlfriend was half-black (even though she had an extremely fair complexion and could "pass"). I just like fair skin, and typically white features; it's what I'm attracted to.

Well does it bother you that we are starting to prefer Asian guys over American guys?

No, not all. It doesn't bother me when you date fat girls either!

That would be the same as me getting upset because a guy likes another American woman over me. No big deal... There are plenty of fish in the sea and I live next to the ocean!

No not really...I think it's kind of weird though..i don't understand fetishes.

No. Different strokes for different folks!

Does it bother you that more American girls prefer being alone to being with American guys?

No. And it is not a new trend. In my mid 50's, I have watched American men act foolish over foriegn women for decades. My dad liked Thai, and then Vietnamese. Then Philipino. The common thread was that these cultures raised women to be subservient, never question, argue or be assertive. Basically, men like my dad like having a small, childlike female who acts like a frightened child. I think it is a legal form of pedophilia. So, no, it never bothered me because I didn't want anything to do with any man who was that unsure of his masculinity.

Nah i dont care. :] im taken! yay

First, americans arent a race. And second, No, it shouldnt (and as I always say) as long its for the right reason.

Why? Asian girls are beautiful. :D

Asian, like, actually from Asia? Cuz there are Asian Americans, and by American, do you mean white? Or American, cuz there's a big difference, and btw.... asian was one of my fantasies, but I fulfilled that fantasy, and am now married to an Italian American woman.

no...i haven't noticed that difference...but why would it bother me?...i've caught the attention of the one guy i want already anyways :)

A: Yes, I will give the honest answer here of yes. After discovering my boyfriends collection of Asian girl porn I must admit that I was a bit put off by it. Guess it has to do with the fact that even at 5 feet tall 105 pounds I still don't feel that I am as "cute" as an Asian girl to my boyfriend.

LOL! I hadn't noticed that. Perhaps because most "asian" girls are also "American girls?" Ya think?

Haha well, Americans guys can be asian, hispanic, or african american and so on. Also, american girls can be asian, hispanic, or african american or any other nationality. So re-word your question buddy. As for the fact of being a caucasian american girl...im gonna go with no it doesnt bother me. I prefer hispanic men over men of my own ethnicity. I really don't find men of my own ethnicity attractive. (Sorry if that offends you, but not that it matters because you prefer asians.) I also think your question is bias. TOTALLY bias. Maybe in your world people prefer asian women, but that doesn't mean that the men where i live prefer asian women. If that is a statistic, well then where did you find it because I'd like to see it.

No..why should it? We are all members of the human race..we all came from the same source, whether you believe in a religious basis or a scientific basis..we are all brothers and sisters..so why should I care which of my sisters you choose? That makes no sense.

i am both an asian and an american woman. i have korean, irish, welsh and german heritage. im an american citizen born abroad. i think its ridiculous to ask if american guys prefer the american or the asian part of me. race and nationality are two different animals. i think your ? is racist and derogatory. i think american men like all types of women from all walks of life.

LOL, actually guys that i like tend to like white girls. it's kinda their thing. Most people feel comfortable with similarity. i'm sure it's not like an outbreak of white guys getting married to Asians...i'm sure whitey has nothing to worry about

I've got my Boo, and don't care what race you, or anyone else's dates. So, NO it doesn't bother me.

No, but those are beautiful names. I lived in Vicenza and Rome and have family all over Northern and Central Italy.

Well, I love the song China Girl by David Bowie, so I guess it's not that bad.

they only go for asian girls becasue they think their Vajayjay is smaller than white womens . Why do they need a women with a smaller Vajayjay ? Because they have a small Weenee

You flying over to Asia to club Asian girls over the head and bringing them stateside, or something?

As long as it doesnt bother you American guys that us brothas are taking a big liking to your fine American Ladies

Nothin sexier then a smart White Lady :-)

NO OFFENSE I belive that every girl is the same I know alot of latinas that are very smart .. real estate agents Doctors as well as American girls what do asian women have that us american white or black females dont have?

no like i care im american girl and im with an asian boy and loving it who cares about white boys :p

ummm i cee

I haven't noticed that around here. It wouldn't bother me either way. Love shouldn't be based upon were you are from or what color your skin is.

No, it doesn't. I think asian women are beautiful and can see why ANY man would be attracted to them but I disagree with your outlook. I believe it is about individuality, not race.

Nah I haven't seen the trend. Besides I got me a man who loves his American girl. I have no worries.

did you ever think that us american girls perfer the asian men over you!!! I have a son with a asian man... I an white enough, I dont want to add to it by being with a man as white as I am!!!

Nope... I like asian guys too, though my bf isn't one... (shhhh) LOL But, I don't really see a problem with it. To each his own!

When did this happen? I don't care anyway, I'm half Asian.

nope I dont need the whole country all I need is one. And apparently I look somewhat asian I've been told

No because it gives us the opportunity to date another race also.

It doesn't bother me at all because it's not true. Thanks for asking though.

I could care less who dates who as long as they are happy.

I NEVER HEARD OF THIS BEFORE..

No, it's fine with me. But I'm hispanic so I guess I'm not in the picture? LOL.

uh honestly, I can't say that i've met a white guy that prefers asian girls over american girls. prove your source here.

I'm with a hispanic who loves me for the beautiful american woman i am and i can tell you that he nor any of the "american" guys i know really go for asian women at all.

Hey, I'm Asian...loving every word of this! ;P

Nope! Go for it =)

What people do with their lives doesn't bother me at all. Besides, the type of men I am attracted to don't seem to be attracted to Asian women.. I'm not sure why.. maybe it is just because we have hardly ANY Asians in South Florida? I have enough self confidence that I know I bring something to the table in my relationships that is desirable. And I applaud any woman who feels the same way :]

im an asian girl, and i hate white guys. they only want sex always. i do other things too you know. also, i heard they like us because they think we are loyal. HAHAhahahahahahaha

Those men have yet to constitute the vast majority. And those who I have met who prefer Asian women like them for the following reasons, which are just stereotypes anyway: 1)They're smaller & more "feminine" 2) They're less "vulgar" and more "demure" 3) They're more likely to do what the guy says because they're more subservient (being from a male-dominant culture and all). Please. The guys who really prefer women just because they make the guy feel more "manly" or "in control" are just sad. Besides, there are PLENTY out there who still prefer us "strong-willed" and "fiery" American women =P

I'm not American but, lulz. This is news to me.

I'm not American, I'm Russian (though I currently live in the US) -- but I've met a guy or two (I don't think that constitutes "most of American guys") who had a Japanese fetish, and those tended to be the guys who seemed to really like the idea of rape. Seriously. Wtf? Anyway -- I'm not particularly bothered, as I don't like those sort of guys.

Just a fantasy, nothing to worry about.

Does it bother you that more and more American Girls prefer Coloureds and Foreigners?

Please don't flatter yourself sir.

Different strokes for different folks! There are plenty of women of all nationalities for the men of this world! I happen to be in love with an Englishman...that is just heavenly.

Does it bother you that American women are looking else where? If not, why should it bother us?

Define american guys

As an Asian man, I do see that happening more and more these days. I personally do not feel threatened by it----if that is what an American man wants, why not? There is a stereotype about Asian girls being more feminine and submissive. Some Asian girls may wholly disprove this stereotype, but in general it IS true. I've travelled a lot throughout Asia, and I was born and raised in Canada, and I speak from experience. In Asia, being "demure" and submissive does not carry the same negative connotation that it does in the West. In fact, Asian women use this to their advantage and are strengthened by it. There is also this belief by Westerners that Asian girls are hurt by this, and that they ignorant to this "problem". On the contrary, Asian girls are very intelligent, and they know through their cultural upbringing what men "desire". In a sense, they know about men and their big egos---accordingly, they generally know how to treat them in a way that doesn't threaten or devalue them. My mother was like that, and she is a very strong and smart woman. My father was a big baby, and you couldn't change him. In effect, my mother proved she was superior to my father, and that women like her are a stronger breed than most people think.

no, it doesn't bother me at all. go for it! ;)

I can't speak for all American women, but I can pretty much assure you that the majority of us could care less about this.

Go in peace. Persue your South East dream. My cousin has been living in SE Asia for years and he really likes it.

My male friend and I (female) both agreed and came to this following conclusion: Asian fetishes were developed by English majors with Oscar Wilde obsessions, who occasionally like to stick shampoo bottles up their asses and have a problem with authoritative women due to a stifling relationship with an overbearing mother who still controls them to this day. Girls with personalities intimidate them. At the same time, the slight frame of most Asian women, which verges on boyish most of the time, clearly relates to their latent homosexuality and pedophilic tendencies.

I have noticed this phenomenon more and more. I have wondered about it, a little concerned, but I am not bothered in the least.

No .. whatever you want. It's no big deal to us.

Who cares? You prefer who you prefer!

asians are gross! they're too gosh darn hairy! and they're voices are really high and it annoys me.

Who says we prefer them over American girls? I don't!

I'm actually thrilled and relieved. Maybe you can learn something we obviously could not teach you!

ahhh speak for yourself...in my opinion...you cant beat a hot blonde Cali girl! or even a hot ass cowgirl! how about your American Goth chick....sorry, the asian school girl look (although nice) only goes so far.

I'm an American girl and I've had Asian men after me. I already have my guy, but either way... who has so little to do in life to be worried about that?

Ha, ha, there are no Asian people in this part of Texas. So what are you going to do with no girls. Actually, girls don't care who guys pick to love. You love whom you love.

nope. never dated a guy who liked non-whites.

no, most of us american women love black men anyways

I'm a guy and I don't think that more and more American guys prefer Asian girls over Asian ones. It is a truly individual preference.

You don't choose after origin.

Hmn I never noticed.

NAH dont care! what ever they want they can have it!

I hadn't noticed the global overtaking. Should we alert the president? This sounds serious.

nah there is enough to go around :P

This quetion is stupid..You like who you like no matter what race or color. Also, as an Asian woman, I'm a little hurt by some of the comments here. No need to degrade us just to prove your point. There are plenty of Asian women who are as successful as men, who have power, who can think for themselves, who are independent, smart and fiery.

This quetion is stupid..You like who you like no matter what race or color. Also, as an Asian woman, I'm a little hurt by some of the comments here. No need to degrade us just to prove your point. There are plenty of Asian women who are as successful as men, who have power, who can think for themselves, who are independent, smart and fiery.