What makes you feel most insecure about your self?
by 
Disko Fari
ANSWERS: 31
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My weight -- sometimes I feel like the fattest person on the face of the earth! I know that's not the case, but, sometimes it's still makes me intimidated, especially around beautiful people.
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i had a learning disorder growing up and i have come to find that it impacts every area of my life. i was basically told the majority of my life that i didn't meet "standards"...even though i don't have the learning disorder now...i worked very hard and graduated college with honors...i still battle with myself...constantly putting myself down because i'm not perfect...this doesn't help me at all...zero self confidence and esteem...it's taken a toll on me...
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My fear of always asking for help, because I'm afraid I'll look stupid. Also of my body composition, I'm pretty much in shape because I'm in track and all, but since I'm not all buff and stuff in my arms and chest and all that stuff, people try and tend to push me around. I hate it, it makes me fell pretty much belittled.
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I have the penmanship of a 5 year old.
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My intellect (or lack there of.)
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Right now, it's these dang braces! All I need is tissue falsies falling out of my bra and I would be time traveling back to my geeky days! Even this is kinda fun though, I admit. Gives you renewed compassion for the kids!
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you!
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Most other people unfortunately.
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knowing he might never love me back possibly because of how i look
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How people percieve me.
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i've always had issues with just not feeling PRETTY. i never do. i've always been a chubby girl. and there were just enough jerks throughout my school years to make me feel miserable and hopeless. it never really went away. i get so intimidated by attractive people, it makes me sick sometimes.
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My weight. I will never be skinny like all those girls on TV. I was happy at 140 prepregnancy but gaining 80 pounds with my 2 pregnancies is killing me. It is very hard for me to lose weight and thus far no success.
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sexual performance anxiety
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My gosh darn over active brain - I over think everything! If I let myself think too much I will make myself insecure about nothing :P Working on that tho ;)
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my emotions.
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Severely clumsy. I always bump into things, stub toes, drop things at the worst time.
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I guess that sometimes people tend to misjudge me before really getting to know me. I understand it sometimes but I can still feel it.
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having the man i adore tell me how hot every girl around is, except me!
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The 30 lbs. I'm trying to lose. Down 5 so far.
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Hhmm, I would have to say that I don't really think that I have any real depth to my personality. I feel rather shallow. A lot of people say that it's not true, but I know so many inspiring people. Their personalities shine, they draw people in. And mine just doesn't.
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when i am in a group and feel left out or can't say anything important or smart to add to the conversation. if i feel not smart enough, when i feel like i am letting people down, when someone is mad with me. when i am having a bad hair day/ face day, and feel ugly and fat.
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How I get treated by a man I love. If he lies, cheats or shows an obvious interest in another woman or leaves me for another, it hurts more than anything else I have ever experienced. And my self esteem and belief plummets and I become low and insecure.
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My back fat... haha! I started working out the end of December and well my back fat is already just about gone! I have only lost 6lbs but I have slimmed up quite a bit!! I love it.
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My teeth, because they are not white, straight, and perfect. :-/
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in the past-fear of failure. I now tell my staff the more you fail the better you will be. Embrace failure and move on.
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Public speaking, the fear of embarassing myself in front of everyone.
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When I am out with my sister and all the men are looking at her
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When I'm talking to someone, walking down the street or being served at a shop and people can't stop looking at my scar.
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Someone staring at me.
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The fact that I was suffering from anxiety disorder all my life and my kids had to grow up with the effects of that. I hope someday they understand. I wish I had had help much earlier, but it wasn't available.
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Low self-esteem, self-confidence and self-worth.
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