Im 37. Shes 26. We met 3 years ago at our job orientation. Ive never been attracted to younger girls. Ive always thought they were immature, didnt know what they wanted and liked to play games. so i didnt really have any feelings for her at first, especially with older women closer to my age working there as well. but we have been working together for 3 years now and she is without a doubt, the most amazing person ive ever met in my entire life. and ive met a lot of people in my 35 years. She is like no one in this world. she is beyond kind, generous. loving, fun, funny, understanding, caring, whimsical, and just strange in all the best ways. But all of those things are why im having this problem. Because she treats everyone like they are the most important person in the world, I dont know if shes even into me or just loves me because she loves everyone. the only reason i think i have a shot is the way she looks at me. She looks at me with so much adoration and admiration, it makes my heart sing and my knees weak. and she doesnt look at anyone else like that. I think she and i are both into each other but are very hesitant because of the age difference. i dont want to make her uncomfortable or make work awkward for any of us. but at this point i dont even go to work for the money anymore.