If you were on a business trip and hit it off with a sexy stranger at a bar, would you hit it if you were 100% guaranteed not to get caught? (Honesty Required)
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ANSWERS: 25
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In all honesty, no. If I'm with someone I'm off limits. I can accept that. The other option is to end my relationship, THEN go on a business trip.
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Absolutely not. That would be wrong.
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No....I have an example that while not at a bar, it may serve to illustrate what follows if one passes on lustful feelings. In 2000 or so I was at a business conference and a very attractive middle aged Canadian woman and I chatted while in line for workshop tickets or something like that. We ended up having lunch later that day with a few of her friends and mine. Along the way we stopped into my hotel room for something and there was a feeling of electricity in the air. I decide to not act on that and honestly thought that I could serve her best by teaching her how to chant (nb: an energizing Buddhist chant), which I did the following morning in a beautiful sunlit outdoor courtyard. The moment we did so a dove landed on a sill in front of us. We looked at one another in amazement...a touching moment I remember to this day.
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No... I'd know I did it, and I don't stay faithful only for my husband, but mostly for myself.
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No...I'm assuming I am dating someone or am married....correct?
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No but if I was having problems with the relationship I was in and I could possibly replace it with a new one I might just make a phone call and turn a cheating oportunity into just an oportunity
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Sure! I'm single, why not? Well, maybe. I'm not really that into casual sex anymore, but I guess it would depend on my mood.
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This is as honest as I can get: I SWEAR to tell the truth, the whole truth AND NOTHING BUT the truth - so help me God. A qualifier: I AM a monogamous man - one man with one lady. I always was. I always will be. It's the way I was raised, noticed AND was taught. That being mentioned, here's my answer - with both options: If I was in a relationship with a lady, the thought probably wouldn't cross my mind. I would continue going about my business. On the other hand: if I was single and looking, I'm sure I would approach the young lady and ask if I could buy her a drink. THEN we would see what happened - or didn't happen. Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: My wonderful family! Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" Also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons".
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A "sexy stranger at a bar" is almost certainly a hooker. I've been there (and quietly turned her down, even though I wasn't in a relationship).
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Honesty required, eh? Well I've been in that situation a few times but I believe in keeping my promises, and I promised something like, "... forsaking all others."
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doesn't sound like your being 100% honest to your love one.
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That would never happen, for I never have been on a business trip and never will, I never go to bars, and not good at talking and stuff. Still, if it played out as you described, no. Though, honestly, I would be flattered that I accomplished having put myself in a position where a total stranger would be willing. Would stop there, but actually wouldn't even start.
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The assumption here is that I'm married at the time. And since I AM married now, that's the way I'll answer it. NO. I have an extremely well developed sense of personal honor and I would have to deal with the personal ramifications inside myself. In many ways, this would be worse than someone else (like my wife) finding out. SERIOUSLY worse. And she would know something was wrong anyway because it would affect me outwardly.
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If I had a girlfriend or wife, of course not. If I was single, maybe.
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If I was attached, no. If I was single like I am, maybe.
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Not even if I was single. I like relationships, not flings.
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no
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No, because I would know and that would bother me. I assume by stating 'not getting caught' that there is a significant other...... Besides, flings are very dangerous these days.
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it depends if "Heroes" was on TV that night.
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had the chance while a hot colombian who didn't even speak english was passing through my airport. would NEVER be caught. didn't do it.
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Nope that at all, being faithful is important in a relationship
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Nope. Unless, of course, I were single, unattached, and available. ;-)
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yes and id be sure to wear a condom.
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did you see that movie called derailed? You wouldnt even attempt it.
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i cant get caught because who would catch me im single, which means i can hit all the sexy strangers i want with no regrets, not that i would but i have that option
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