Yep.

Yes and once I found someone who did it felt so silly.

Unfortunately, yes.

Long time ago...but, knew it would not work.

yes.

Yeah, but towards the end of her life, Mom said she really did love me after all.

yeah but he wants me too,but i never told him :( *cry*

pretty sure that's what i'm doing right now.

Not yet.

A couple of times. It is the #@%&*@#$'s.

not since I ws a teenager/young adult at least not romantically anyway. As a friend that's a different story

I'm involved in that right now. It sucks. She's great, but I have to somehow convince myself that I can't have her. She's taken, but her b/f is an idiot, and not just according to me.

all the time, from a simple crush to loving my ex who dumped me for someone else... i guess its just in my nature but i have fith that someday one of the many will want me back and then i will be truly happy.

thats funny

Someone not want me-impossible?

thats whats up with me. she likes her ex boyfriend who broke up with her after three weeks because he suddenly lost intrest in her. i cant seem to get her to understand just how much i like her.

Yes, but i am determined, and ended up winning them over in the end. We are now together =)

Yeah -- I liked my current boyfriend way before he liked me (or showed it anyway -- he said he flirted with me a couple of times, but I didn't notice because I'm always oblivious to that kind of thing) -- also, he was with someone else at the time who he had intense feelings for and who was giving him grief, so I just tried not to show it...

I wanted a guy in high school, but he ended up dating my sister who's 6 years older than me. I actually had to babysit her kids for her while she went on dates with him. It was really hard, but after a short time she realized that a high school kid just wasn't mature enough for her, so they broke up. With her blessing, we ended up finally getting together and even got married just before I turned 19. We had a baby together when I was 21 and about 6 months after he was born, my husband moved out. I don't believe in divorce and couldn't stand the idea of him leaving me. I was so completely sure that I loved him and that we were supposed to be married for the rest of our lives. I waited for him to come back to me for at least a year without even thinking about dating anyone else, even though I knew he had started dating. It took so much from me to finally move on. In fact, the first time I kissed another guy, I actually cried because I realized that meant I had accepted he was gone. Now I've been remarried for the last 7 1/2 years and couldn't be happier. Still don't believe in divorce, but am so glad he left. Otherwise we'd be miserable and I never would have the life I have now.

Not outloud.

Yes, and it only took but a moment's indiscretion to extinguish the torch I carried for her for 5 years.

no. im not stupid enough to put myself in that mess. I have enough control over my life to not sulk over someone.

i still do ... i know i cant have her right now .. shes told me she doesnt want to hurt me but just cant see it working .. unfortunately i think its damaging the most amazing friendship ive ever had. My life would be perfect if id realised how id felt before she got with this guy .. shes totally moved on. 8 months on i still cant think of anyone else. Every other girl i get close to i compare to her and think .. "it's just not ***" :(

No .. i never wanted anyone who didn't want me in return.

Nope.. I hate wasting my time

Kind of in that process right now. I've made her cry (not intentionally) so I don't know where the hell her mind is.

oh yeah...and it unfortunatly is a miserable feeling...

Story of my life. I want something so badly, become even obsessed with it. But once I get it, it doesn't seem so great as I once thought it was, and I move on.

A long time ago. She makes me puke now.

it's impossible to control what your heart wants. and sometimes it wants what it can't have. i definitely know this to be true. i've found that even the most hopeless situations can get better. keep your chin up, no matter how hard that is.

Yeah, it happened long ago. Sometimes even 5 or 6 yrs later I still think about him. It's sad, because sometimes I still wish I could still be with him.

story of my life.. it is like i only go for the ones that do not want me

yes i wanted this boy that live in New jersey and he kept telling his friends that he does want me but its all good because i went out with his friend to spite him.

Yep. Infact i still want them. However she keeps getting guys who are older and they live someplace far away with cars..infact her last boyfriend was in cali and we live in New jersey...but in the end, i know if the day comes when we can be together, than it will be worth the wait. Because i wouldnt wait for anyone but her.

Yes, I have... 6-7 years now, still counting.

Yes, for 8 years........

Welcome to life, we all want what we can't have...or you could probaly have them if you worked hard enough for them.

Everyday. Not much you can do... Hobby's.

yeh, and dont feel bad, it happens to loads of people. Its easy to get blind to everyone else when you want someone you cant have. If you feel like this, maybe try to take the blinkers off and give it a try with other people.

ugh, yes. the irony? i found out years later, that he wanted me - after he made me feel CRAZY that i thought we had something. in retrospect, i can claim that i was young and naive, and blind.

story of my life

yes and i am still in the same situation. i am still trying to forget her...

Nope.

Yup, but not for long; gotta move onward and upward, time's awaste'n.

I think everyone has had a person like that

Not for long! : D

Yes indeed!!!!!!!!!!

Oh many a times...

yes...that always happens to me.

Yes. And when I got older and thought about it, I realized what a waste of time it was.

Ya, and it hurt too.

Yes,it's called obsession.

i have but in hind sight it was a waste of time/energy.

yes my ex bf he says he wants me too but things wernt working :(

No, that would be a waste of my time and against my constitution.

Yeah. Kylie.

think most of us have done this at some point ..took me 7 months to figure out my ex didnt want me. Funny thing is..when you find someone who DOES want you..makes you feel stupid and awful that you never worked it out before.. still alls well that ends well right ...:O)

Yes, right now and it hurts. My ex boyfriend, we were togehter 4 n half years and i dont want to move on, i want to get back together and right now it feels impossible x

yes i think sometimes i still want my ex, but he is in a relationship...

Yes. It's called obsession. Love is mutual.Check yourself out for OCD.

yes... its hard being just friends and seeing her fall for other guys... no matter how hard i try to impress her she just thinks of me more that much more of a friend then a lover

Yup why waste your valuable time on something that you can't have, while you could be getting something/someone else.

Not to my knowledge or recollection.

I think I may have hurt your feelings unintentionally. If so, sorry. Very often obsession gets confused with love. The key is if the desire is mutual or not because love is, by definition, mutual. When I have wanted someone who didn't want me - and I have - I've been working too hard beating a dead horse, so to speak. Please forgive me if I offended you with my answer. I didn't mean to.

no...it's a waste of time and energy