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ehh..i would say you weren't suppose to remember it why would you? it wouldn't "matter" get him a T-shirt that says "its over, we dont have to remember DATES" ^_^
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thats out of order, i see why hes your ex! you dont ask for a b'day prezzie what a dick. dont get him anything, you dont have to remember his b'day, he's your ex, forget about him!!
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LMAO!!!!!! Hell No!!! A blow up doll!!!!
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He sounds like an adult child ~ possibly the reason you divorced him?
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If you two aren't friends, and always end up fighting when you talk, then no, you shouldn't have to get him a present. Did he get you one? You have a busy life. It's not your job to remember his birthday.
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I'm guessing he was very selfish in your marriage....all about him?? He should be lucky your even talking to him.
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Just a nice kiss and tell him you love him. What could be a better gift than that?
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GEEZE!... The only reason my ex-wife ever remembered my birthday was to remind my kids! She, of course, paid for a few of the things they got me when they were young and not working, as I did for her, but not since. And if there are no kids, a phone call, and a wish of a "Happy Birthday" should be PLENTY for an ex.
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you should write the definition of ex on a card and send it to him. Ex means it didn't work and now it is over, piss off.
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get him what he deserves, a request to go f**k himself
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he must be feeling lonely and think you are the one to go to for some affection...poor idiot. I can barely remember stuff like that with people I actually like. Send him a text that says 'happy birthday' and call it a day.
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Absolutely NOT. You have no obligation towards him anymore. He needs to realize this and move on. Good luck.
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I would send him all the court documents regarding your ex-truck and say that you're coming after him, and by the way Happy f&@%#$g Birthday.
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DAMN! No wonder he's your ex. What a vampire!
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Send him some cow poop in a box.
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He's an ex you didn't need to remember,buy him a muzzle.
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EX???? Get him an EX-tra pair of socks
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He's obviously in denial. No don't get him anything. Absolutely not. Just tell him that with divorce comes a loss of some of those marital rituals that once were so routine.
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Does he remember your "ex" anniversary? Probably not.
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Snowman is sorry, he was too busy laughing at your ex husband.... um, what was the question again??? Oh yea..... wait ...... let me stop laughing again .......... ok..... um, no, you don't even have to remember that he exists if you don't want to.
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You'd be out of your mind to get him anything. Was he like that when you were together too?
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He is your ex husband, why should you wish him anything or buy him a gift..I think he wants you be his wife without the benefits..Stay away from him
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OMG!! I so wish this would happen to me. I would tell him to kiss my ass with a quickness as I am laughing uncontrollably. O you poor baby..somebody forgot your birthday. LMAO still. P.S. I have a great gift idea. Get him a pacifier.
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Hon, it sounds as if he's trying to manipulate you. Tell him nothing. Give him nothing. Ignore him totally.
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So..what did he get you for your birthday? :)
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you should have told them that the divorce decree relinquished you of having to remember or do anything for his dumb ass ever again.
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Fold a peice of paper in half and write "Happy Birthday..." on the front and on the inside "...here's your gift."
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Ex's get X(nothing). You get something for your birthday from loved ones not people you have cut out of your life - which is what a divorce does.
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You need to "get him straight"! Let him know that the gifts and the well wishes were nullified in the divorce decree. You need to tell him to find himself another to celebrate his “special" day with.
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Tell him that his gift had already arrived.......you got him what every guy wants.........."SPACE!"
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Tell hjm that his gift had already arrived.....you got him what every guy always wants......"SPACE"
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he's your ex, you owe him nothing...unless you are on really good terms and getting him something is what you did in the past.
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I got a great idea for a gift for next year or as a belated gift...get him tampons cause obviously he's a bit bitchy or pms'ing! Why should you remember his b'day if its over?!
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I don't think as his EX-wife you're expected to call him or even get him a gift. Now, if you have children together, encouraging them to call and/or buy a gift for them to give him would be appropriate. My two cents.
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You are kidding right? The nerve of the guy!! You don't owe him anything anymore.
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THAT'S STUPID! you dont owe him shit! he is a dumb ass! dont get him anything!
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a pair of balls because men do not get upset about forgetting an event because they do it all the time.
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hell no he's your ex, tell him to move on.
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I would have told him your life doesn't revolve around him so go find someone else to bother.
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Sounds to me like he's missing you.
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My soon to be ex did not ask for anything for his bithday but as soon as i read your question i knew he was selfish. my ex is also very very selfish they do not i repeat do not care as long as they get what they want. gift idea... the same thing he got you for yours absolutely NOTHING!
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Get him a stripper (male) Happy Birthday Ex!!
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Your EX? no.. don't get him squat. If you give him anything, give him a calendar with the days the support checks are supposed to be sent circled in red.
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uhm, does he know he's your ex??????????? did he forget, maybe he has you confused with someone that actually gives a damn! : O )
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Why would you even ask a question like that? He is your EX right.
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give him a hard time - tell him his child support check is late
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Get him a mug that says "Time for you to move on!"
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Unbelievable! Remembering his birthday went out the door when he did. No way should you feel you have to mark his birthday!
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r u merried now whit some1 eles?
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Wow, that's pretty unbelievable. Maybe you could get him a bag of dog poop. The best way to wrap it would be by setting it on fire on his front porch! Give him a card that says, "This gift reminded me of you." Your obligation to remember his birthday ended with your marriage! Don't let him make you feel guilty about this, he's a jerk!
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You have no obligation. I still send birthday cards to some of my ex gf's. No gifts though. But I'd buy them a drink if I ran into them in a bar.
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Lol!I'd get him a book on how to move on ;)
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Only if you make a big deal about your own birthday to him. If not, then he'll get over it...if he doesn't then he's a baby...I'd get him a rattle...
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Is he also the father of your children? If he is then I would say you should remember his birthday for the kids sake and have them pick out a present for him. If he's not the dad..well then F*%$ him
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Well he's your ex for a reason. There is no purpose in getting him anything. If yall were still married then it would be a different story. But yall are not. Unless he's the father of your baby, then maybe you can consider getting him something depending on what terms you guys are in. Like if yall are getting along or fighting.
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If I had an ex-wife I think the last person in the world she would get a present from would be me.
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What do you owe him? Nothing. There is nothing wrong with observing his birthday, but there should be no obligation either. It all depends on the kind of relationship you have now.
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WHY SHOULD YOU BUY YOUR EX-HUSBAND A BD CARD ??? YOU ARE RIGHT NOT TO BUY OR CALL HIM
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You don't have to remember that stuff now. Your divorced let his family take care of him
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hire a 300 pound cross dressing stripper
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This kind of treatment likely contributed to your divorce! He needs to grow up! JEEZ!
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NO. You don't need to send him a Birthday card nor buy him any present.
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u shouldnt get him anything!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and no u shouldnt have remembered this b/c u call him ur EX husband for a reason.... call him tom. an be like its my b-day an just go off on him..... an then say what did u get me? even know it not really ur b-day just too make him look stupid
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It is very rude to call someone and demand a birthday present, husband OR ex-husband. No one should ever demand a gift.
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tell him you already gave him his present the divorce papers!
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Have you ever thought about posting your question on GetOnTheCouch.com?
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Have you ever considered posting your question on GetOnTheCouch.com?
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No only do you NOT have to call, you also do not have to buy a present.
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Im sorry but what a cheek has he forgotten he is your ex, you now, no longer have to remember his birthday or any other occasion cause he is no longer a part of you. He is an ex for a reason and stays in the past. Look forward to the future and dont let your EX husband put you down. Tell him to get a life and let you live yours. Dont let your past ruin your future. xxxxxxxxxx
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Based solely on your statement and taking it at face value, I'd say you need to get a call-ID and don't answer when he calls. I can see a couple of reasons why he might be your EX. If you haven't any children from that marriage then I see no beneficial reason for you to be in any type of contact with him. You and him must have established a pattern of emotional abuse while married and he's continuing to play on this. It's obvious otherwise why would you be writing here! You'd know the answer. Don't fight, ignoring someone is the worst and most effective method of getting him out of your life. Forget the present. You owe him nothing.
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Gee, I thought you guys were divorced! I would of hung up on him! No, you do not have to remember his birthday. You might be nice and show up for his funeral! But, you guys are divorced!
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HE'S YOU EX HUSBAND!!! He's being childish...and manipulative. You ARE NOT required to get him anything or even wish him a happy birthday. Don't let him abuse you this way.
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sounds like my ex and to keep the peace i usually text him a happy bday and tell him i wish i could have gotten him something but the alimony check hasn't arrived yet, so i have no extra money... sorry.
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I would ask him what part of the "ex" doesn't he understand?
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What a Narcisisstic Pig. I hope you forget to wish him anything to include talking to him. He uses his anger to get what he wants. I think every person on ab knows why you divorced him. Congratulations! +3
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Are you nuts?
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What a loser,no wonder he's your ex,you didn't need to remember and don't get him anything.
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He is an ex for a reason. Once you both signed your divorce papers, there is no further connection between the two of you. Which includes Birthday, Christmas and whatever else he can think of to whine about not getting a gift. His gift to you is being free of him! He sounds like a whiney brat who refuses to grow up. Unless you have remained friends, I see no reason why you should even consider a gift for him or wishing him a Happy Birthday.
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no you weren't supposed to remember his birthday and you shouldn't get him anything
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what part of divorce doesnt he get??dont even waste your time and money on him... dont let him use you in this way..
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Would you have wished him a Happy Birthday if you HAD remembered?.....if not, then don't waste your breath on him. What a shame you can't wrap up manners as a present?
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Unless you have mutual children who are too young to remember Daddy's birthday on their own, his birthday isn't really your concern anymore. I'd have told him "I did think of you and I didn't wish you dead. That's something, right??"
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Is that why he's your ex husband...because he acts like a demanding spoilt brat?
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You weren't supposed to remember, and don't get him anything, he doesn't deserve it.
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Heck no, you are no longer married to him, so tell him to go jump in a lake.
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No; he is not your s/o anymore. Forget him. He is just being a prick.
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MEN LOL I would tell him "I got you and me the best gift ever...A DIVORCE!" Have a good life!
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You said, EX husband, so you need to Move On in your life even if you have kids. Do not get him a gift or wish him a happy birthday. It is your job to keep him your EX.
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He's a loser. See if you can find him a life.
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get him a watch .
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it really depends on your relationship with him. my ex-wife and I still have a great friendship, but if you honestly forgot it was his birthday, then it probably wasn't worth remembering.
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My response to your question is the same as the response to my ex husband when he told me I should get his new wife a birthday card.... You're kidding, right?
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You don't have to *remember*. His birthday should be an annual event in your phone's calendar.
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