I was at this party this past weekend and my gf showed her nipple rings to some guys because they were talking about it. don't you think thats messed up?
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after some of the things that i have seen...yes...she should be very careful nowadays...its sad i know but the society we live in is full of perverts and people that will take advantage of other people given that chance...but it could also be innocent flirting...by the way i am assuming your a girl right..? cause if not then the way to fix it is threaten(and hold them to it!)them with their lives if they lay a hand on your one reason to get up and go through 18 hours work everyday...sorry bout that
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Yeah, I think that's really messed up. Since it's bothering you, you should really talk to your girlfriend about it if you haven't already. An act like that just won't slide, at least not if it was my significant other doing that. I wouldn't let that slide for the world. Good luck, make sure she knows how you feel.
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yeah that i well out of order even if she was pissed thats bad if it was the other way round it wood be acceptable but thats bad...hope ur not still with her?!?!?!
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yep i really do. body parts are private...
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No I don't. Know why? Because it is my assumption (because you know about it) that she actually did it in front of you. When a girl feels comfortable enough with a guy to be able to do something like that, she had no intent to be "messed up." in the first place. Now if she snuck off and did it in the dark or in a closet somewhere... Then, you might have something to worry about.
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As a biker, having gone to many rallys, parties, thats pretty common. No one gets bent. Flashing is one thing, but for some reason seems to be ok when it comes showing nipple rings. Its HER body...
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Next time you should be talking about cootchie rings. You never know what might pop out from under some chick's leather skirt.
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Yes it is. She should have asked if it would make you feel uncomfortable first.
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Sounds to me like she feels like she needs attention from other guys... that is very messed up. Not girlfriend material if you ask me. Unless you like that about her?... You don't need to deal with that if it's hurting you, let her do her own thing and you do your own thing too.
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no. it seems to me that you should expect her to show off her nipple rings. why else would someone get them, or keep them, unless they are looking for attention. I look at it this way, would you decorate (paint/clean) your car then never take it out of the garage? if you are uncomfortable with her showing them off, then have her get rid of them.
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I guess she's uninhibited...I think it shows poor taste showing that off at a party.
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It's her body, but it was in poor taste. No one wants a trashy girlfriend. Well...some people do...
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Sounds like she's just....extraordinarily outgoing. That's not so messed up.
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Not really. If it bothers you, speak to her about it. But it just sounds like messing about at a party.
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I think getting nipple rings in the first place is messed up.
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She is very out going yes. However, she is basically flashing other guys, who will naturally get turned on after words. If that's what she wants, then that will be trouble for you. If she didn't think about that, then she is stupid. And by the way, being that I keep getting negative ratings, let me just say that ALL people who are willing to do these kinds of things (while dating someone else, and knows their loved one aren't happy with it) are stupid. Because it tells me that they aren't willing to put their boyfriend/girlfriend's feelings before their own, which means they aren't ready to have a relationship. If the one you are with is fine with you showing off your goodies to the world, then that's fine. But if you know they aren't happy with it, then be single if you want to continue being "out going".
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i can see why you'd be annoyed as her body is part of your intimacy. I mean sharing that with other men can make things get irate. I mean if it was just drunken antics or showing it for the fact she wanted attention. Just explain it bothered you, but only because you want to protect her and you want to be the only person to see her body and be intimate with her. She should understand.
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No I don't . These guys obviously knew about the rings in order to talk about them. So either someone at the party told them, or it's common knowledge. This means that it's not a taboo subject. Your girlfriend is obviously very comfortable with her own body and its adornment; I would guess that this is one of the things that attracted you to her. Did you know about the rings when you met her? If this level of exposure of body parts bothers you, use it as an opportunity to discuss where you stand on the boundaries of intimacy in your relationship. You have to come to some agreement on where the limits are so this issue doesn't come up again and bite you. Let us know how it works out.
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No, it's her body, not yours. Boobs are boobs, men have them too. Get over it.
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I think what bothers you is whether those guys would get turned on = competition = possibility of you losing her? If it is so, then don't worry about it until you have a real reason to worry about. If she's a keeper, she probably won't do anything to damage your relationship and showing her nipple ring shouldn't be a big deal if what you are really worried is what's mentioned above. What I'm trying to say here is she hasn't done anything wrong worth getting mad at her for. My 2 cents.
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What she did was WRONG! VERY WRONG! you should have a serious talk with her!
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That's probably something I'd do. It's not messed up, by her showing it off in front of a crowd means, she's not trying to screw the guys, or start anything....Just showing them what they were discussin.Hey, she's just outgoing..Leave er alone, she's fine :-)
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I would be really REALLY disappointed with my GF if she did that. shows no respect to you or your relationship. If boobs are just boobs then she should be cool with you going to a strip club, right?
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That's a pretty shitty thing to do. It doesn't show much respect to you.
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No, not at all. She likes her nipple rings and likes to show them. NO big deal. But I do think that if you don't like it you should realize that's about you and not about her. If you don't approve of that behavior, then have that be part of the process of evaluating your relationship with her. If you're dating a girl that shows herself to people and you don't like it, then you should either deal with it or get a new gf. But I wouldn't try to change her if I were you. That's headed nowhere. FYI, my wife used to show her boobs at parties and out on boating trips all the time when we were dating and early on in our marriage. It never bothered me. In fact I thought it was hot. (She has tremendous tits) Now that she's in her mid 30's, she hardly ever does that anymore. Good luck!
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Apparently she didn't think twice how it may effect your feelings. How would your girlfriend feels if you were to show your tattoo on your dick to some girls at the party just because they were talking about it?...
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It is too liberal unless she was feeding a baby, then it would be acceptable.
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I think you should tell her how it bothered or hurt you and see if she is sensitive to how you feel about it. Try to communicate how it hurt you more than how it angered you. "Its her body" is a retarded response. You should both establish where the boundaries are. If you said that when the guys got a boner over it she let them lick her nipple ring, would people be saying "its her body?!"
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People with tattoos and piercings dont get them to hide them. You must have known the kind of person your girlfriend was before you started calling her girlfriend...and, you're still calling her girlfriend, so it must not have bothered you too much... If you don't like that kind of behavior, get a girl who can keep her shirt on....
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well, she may have gotten carried away, it was a party after all, sometimes people act without thinking first. It was a mistake, but its best not to dwell on this too much unless there is a trend...
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She's classless and yes, thats messed up. Try getting yur penis pierced and show it off to a bunch of girls as soon as they start talkin abt it. I'd like to see her reaction then.
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