What did you get for valentines day? I got a big nothing from a guy I've been dating for 3years not even a card, thats all I wanted :(
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Be happy you have a man in your life for the past 3 years. Many people are divorced, widowed or unhappily single and would trade places with you in a heartbeat.
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I got a Coconut Cream Pie Shake from Sonic. It was good but my straw broke and I had to eat it with a spoon.
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Couple hugs, some candy, A great phone call with my fiance. (shes out of state for a week) Thats all.
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a big wet kiss
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A hug from my crush!!!!
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my guy didnt show up to school and so i was stuck carrying his present. then he dumped me when i told him i had a headache and couldnt make it to his house. ( it was a 14month relationship) other than that a card from my mom. so yea it was a good day:)
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I got nothing also...but I'm a guy. I'd say have a friend of yours/his casually ask if he got you anything for V-day. When he says no, then they can harass him for not doing his duty. If the guy doesn't show remorse about this then I'd say he isn't a very loving person. I mean come on. When every other woman on the civilized planet is getting a gift but you, he SHOULD feel guilty. Does he do this on other holidays too? If so, maybe he isn't worth it. Love doesn't have to be materialistic, but it needs to be demonstrated outwardly somehow.
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I got hugs and kisses,sweet phone calls during the day, two nice cards(one funny, one serious,)4 huge organic chocolate bars, and 6 long-stemmed pink roses with baby's breath and greenery. All that from hubby. We also got phone calls and cards from my parents and my in-laws. We had a lovely dinner and evening together. I made all his favorites for dinner, and I made him dark chocolate Grand Marnier truffles.
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Try being honest with him and telling him how you feel...but not in an accusing way if possible. You have a right to let him know what you expect from the relationship.
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I didn't get anything either. I got him a dozen yellow roses, box of candy and a nice card. This year was a very strange Valentine's Day for us.
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I got squat but next year will be my year, lol
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I got a Valentine from a very good friend since high school, Valentine's, flowers and candy and a surprise visit from my grandaughters! I feel so very lucky!
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Not seeing anyone so, I wasn't expecting anything. But, I did get an e-card. :)
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You poor girl. Do tell him how u feel about it.Make him aware that it has upset you ...
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Wow. 3 years. And you get nothing. I guess he is trying to tell you something, I'm afraid. I mean...wow.
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could get worse. my EX husband of 18 years..before we ever got married brought me a HUGE valentine box of candy (the ONLY thing i ever got from him on VD) ALONG WITH a dear john letter, loved me but needed to be single...ripped my heart out..but i just said see ya, and it was hard..but a week later we got back together..hindsight, I can't say I really regret that because I did love him and I love my 2 kids..i do wish I'd payed more attention to "him showing his true colors". maybe my heart would not of CONTINUED to be "ripped apart" for so long!
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last year we had a big ice storm here in ny and i found the time to buy a card and candy. my husband opened that day (4am to 2pm). when i got home from my 9-5 he was passed out asleep with nothing for me. didn't wake up till about 8pm. this year i asked him if we would do v-day because of the huge disappointment last year; i didn't want to get something and not have it reciprocated. he assured me we were. i got flowers delivered and a card from him. let your bf know how disappointed you are and remind him next year about your feelings. i don't think v-day should be another expensive gift giving holidays but just a card would be nice, something acknowledging the day.
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Join the club...me too :(
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Question-Did you get him something? I think it's really unfair how the guy is always expected to get the girl something and not the other way around as well. But hey I guess I would feel the same way if I was with someone :( And reading all those answers where people got lovely presents didn't help!
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hello i got nothing but a kick in the ass after 13 years of marriage a five kids at my age 25 ang him 26 nothing at all just name calling and a horrible life.
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For valentines day, my boyfriend of 19 months got me a dozen roses, wrote me a letter of the reasons he loves me, and got me a surprise. Hasn't come in yet but I'm excited!
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earings and lots of hugs nd kisses
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I'm on the same boat :-(
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I got a Happy Valentine's text message from him. But he addressed it to all the "ladies" in his life... ...his mom, his sister, and his daughter, and me. Hmm. I guess I should feel good that he's including me in that elite group?
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A four pack of boddingtons, and two packs of beef jerky.... and for my birthday four days ago, I got a 12 pound medicine ball.
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i got dumped by the guy i was with for 3 years so sweetie i kno how you feel :( <hug>
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There's a lot of people feeling the same way right now. Just curious, did you get him one? if so what did he say? Anyway, sorry he didn't get you a card. Why don't some guys see the romance in things?
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Well..he still might be preparing something for you!! if not boohoo. men are all different..they all have different approaches
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I got a heart necklace from Kay's & a Guess gift card. I got him a cross for his necklace.
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A kiss while leaving for work.
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I got to spend yet another day with the man I love, and that is all I needed.
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I got a dozen red roses from my brother Wayne, a gold bangle from my hubby, a heart shaped hand mirror with a pink feathered frame, and a three month suscription to online Chess.com from my son. ;+
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That sucks but you have to tell guys what makes you happy. Let him know he hurt your feelings and next year I bet he'll do better.
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she gave me a simple but symbolic gift. a locked safe that had an engraved (in her native language) "key to her heart" P.S.- is he good to you the rest of the year? if so, don't make a big deal out of a construct made by greeting card companies to pressure people into buying crap.
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Then you should make sure that next Valentines Day you are with someone who will appreciate you and not have a problem showing it. I am sorry. The fact he did not do anything says more about him than it does about you. You deserve better. Good luck.
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