I'v been Divorced for about 1 year ,I don't talk to her at all no reationship all my kids are over 18 yrs so we don't need to talk any more

Now we are very good friends. I am glad because that's better for the children.

He is a very nasty piece of work and hope I never lay eyes on him again. **** sorry I just read the divorced bit of the question - d'oh. We weren't married, luckily never quite made it that far.

great .... we don't keep in constant touch but when we do bump into each other its cool ... see we parted as friends which makes a hell of a difference ....I even got invited to her wedding when she got remarried

Non-existent. Haven't heard from him in years and have no idea what he's up to. We don't have kids, so that makes it much easier!

It's been ten years -- we exchange emails a few times a year, and occasionally talk on the phone.

We don't speak at all. I guess it's because he and my kids went to go live with his mom after the divorce and let's just say she rules the roost. I even have to ask her if I can talk to one of my youngest daughter. She won't even let her come down to Florida to stay with me for a vacation.

One I don't see/speak to at all. He was very abusive. The second hubby i still talk to. Our son lives with him, and our daughter lives with me, so we pretty much have to have a civil relationship.

Great! we have 2 girls, were married for 4 years, and love each other. marriage was not right for US, and we know that. but we made our "miracles" and love each other. as a matter of fact, the day we got divorced, we stayed together a week later, went to new orleans, and had a blast. the "world" should join me in such carefreeness. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WALK AROUND ALL PISSED OFF ALL THE TIME

He lives 3 blocks away from me. But I probably only see him a few times a year. My kids go to his house he doesnt come here. But we get along fine, for the most part, as long as he gets his way. 5 years of unwedded bliss. :)

Which one?

He died in May so we no longer have a relationship, but while he was alive we didn't get along well and after he died, I felt so bad that I treated him so badly while he was alive.

Don't really see the first one, the second is dead, the third I cannot stand.

none at all

Nonexistent !!! And I plan to keep it that way forever !!

None, he die on Thanksgiving day last year. So now he is poluting the ground in some graveyard.

We get along fine, I see him maybe once a month. We have been to the same cook outs and will probably play cards in a couple of weeks at my sons house. No feelings what so ever on my part and have made it clear to him! (We both like to play poker and my son has the games at his house)

I have not seen or heard from him in over 23 years. I usually forget that he exists.

I haven't seen her since she took my son. So, you tell me.

I don't have a relationship with my ex and I wouldn't have one even if he wanted it. He's a complete a@@hole and a liar. He plays the "poor me" card and will tell anyone within earshot how horrible I was in our marriage, but the weenie just can't bring himself to admit his wrong doing--so he deflects responsibility and tries like hell to convince everyone else I'm the evil one. He was a complete a@@hole in the marriage and in his weakness, couldn't stop looking over the fence. The funny thing is that he still can't take responsibility for his actions in that relationship. Believe it or not, I get a big kick out of some of his rants. It's hilarious and even funnier when my scores of friends and family see his behavior. You'd think he'd realize that people get tired of hearing the same old BS. He lives in a world where he's convinced himself that what he did was ok. Which is ok with me because it's funny as hell. I've moved on, but he hasn't. He needs to focus exclusively on his current life, but he won't because he's more "average" than he will admit and can't or wont take the steps necessary to deal with his feelings. I feel sorry for him.

We are friends....sometimes we even laugh and say that we should have met each now that we are in our 30s...that is life.....

He still ties to call me and tell me everything that is going on in his life, which I could care less about. He lives three blocks from me, with his Mom and Dad, LOL.

None. No kids and no love between us. I have run into him a few times and have had to contact him on a few occasions. I would be happy if I never saw him again.

None and in any other case that would be way cool except there is a child involved.

As soon as the divorce was settled and I made very sure that I would have a non-existant one.

My first one I have not spoken to in almost 20 years. He lives in a different state. My other ex, we talk because of our children. I tolerate him.

seperated 7 years, divorced 4. we fought for 7 years lol....not sure why. always very heated arguments also moreso than anyone else ever. yet now our little girl is sick and so about a mos ago we made a mense. so its been great. we see eachother about twice a mos for kids to be picked up, at school functions or doctors together we talk on phone once a week or so.........

Divorced in January of 1974. She had to talk and write to me until the kids grew up, at least the oldest one. Then she used the oldest one as an 'information carrier'. We haven't talked or written for about 25 years. It has been wonderful.

I live with my ex and kids going on 5 years since the divorce. The reason we split was her mother got in the way.

My kids are all adults now. The day he tried to beat up my youngest son, my ex became angry at ME for not allowing it. He hasn't talked to me since. He's punishing me. ROTFLMAO I only see him if I HAVE to, ie, weddings and such. Other than that, we don't see one another and don't talk to one another. He's such a man. >eye roll<

We were able to work things out to the point of living together but after being divorced I refuse to re marry just to go through another one.

Everytime I think about her, I want to die.