Do you think that sometimes you need to be your own hero and dig yourself out of the hole?
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PerfectlyFlawed.
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Yes and I have done just that many ah times + 5
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Its starting to look that way and nobody can lift my big ass out of the hole I dug for myself.
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That's usually how it works. I wish more people would realize that.
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I believe it is the way it has to be done, sometimes we wouldn't mind having a little help though...
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Definitely !! We just have to reach down deep inside and persevere. I learned this at an early age through sports and it applies to all areas of life.
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Yes the best way to remain out of that hole is to dig yourself out. If someone else does it you may very well end right back in the same hole.
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yes. I would never want to have to depend on anyone else to dig me out...
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Always. Im my only hero now adays
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Great question. I think that's always going to be the bottom line. People can help, but you have to do the work. Especially since a hero is generally thought of as someone who is loved and admired. That's how you have to see yourself in order to affect change.
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Yeah... reminds me of the Blank Savage tribute song..... Hero.
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No, I think that in the end, you *Always* have to dig yourself out of your own hole. In every case I've ever known of someone who was in a "Hole", depressed, grappling with an addiction, etc. the true deciding factor in whether or not they got out of it wasn't anything that anyone else did to help them, it was whether or not *They* were really motivated to help themselves. It can be very easy to lie back and play the victim when things get tough, but the only way that path leads is further down. Until you let go of that kind of mindset and really want and try to make things better for yourself, no amount of outside help can do anything for you.
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I try, I hate to ask people for help. It just seems I dig some pretty deep holes for myself, it's hard when you're trying to find the way out in the dark.
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sometimes...however, if someone else got you into that hole, they deserve to get you out...and fast!
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What's that song? We all need somebody to lean on? Even if its just to hold the shovel while I take a break :)
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Not some times, every time.
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Wholeheartedly.
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It happens sometimes, and it is the best if I am able to do it. But sometimes I need some help and I would gratefully accept that help.
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Absolutely..and every time you do it, you become stronger and more capable of doing it.
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I know so. I have been in situations in my life where there was no other choice. It was hard at the time, but I am so thankful now to know how strong and capable I am. I rely on myself for many things, and that is okay. I know that I can handle whatever happens. You would be amazed at the strength you have inside of you!
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I think everytime people should deal with themselves (mentally especially) and do it on their own. To an extent they're going to have to whether they want to or not. Experiences to opinions. Livia
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Until you reach the point where you can do just that... Everything else is just noise. Yes, I do think that. You are your own greatest enemy and your own hero!
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Yep and I did.
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Yes , you can only really rely on yourself in some situations.
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Yes because in the end you really are the only one you can count on...
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If you don't help yourself, nobody else will do it for you
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yes, you do.
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All the time, all the time.
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hell yea being your own hero can help you achieve anything you want. you should be the only role model u follow.
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totally alwayz be ur own hero!
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Yea
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Of course! I've been doing it all my life! If you don't do it no one else will!
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No one will fight harder for you than you.
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You ALWAYS need to start digging yourself! First off what if no one else bothers to help at all? You live in a hole? Secondly who wants to help you if you're not willing to help yourself? Thirdly if someone starts helping you that doesn't mean you can give up and expect them to do it for you. Its YOUR life its YOUR responsibility to do what it takes!!!
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Yes. Sometimes we fall in life in order to pick up ourselves once more. An individual can be in a personal abyss of the mind and within the heart. Sometimes a person can do with a helping hand if they are in such a deep hole that there’s no way out for them. A person can be their own hero but there are certain situations in life when someone can be a hero for another. We could all do with help in something. Being independent is a way of being your own hero and learning to survive. Being good to yourself is your own personal hero.
iwnit 
Linda Joy 
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