How can you tell if someone truly loves you or just your money?
by 
Payton Parker
ANSWERS: 44
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Tell this person that you are broke and are going to have to file for bankruptcy. This should stir a reaction.
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Stop buying her stuff.
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this will help: take her for an expensive date, have a great time and then in the end, tell her, "oney, this is the last of such date for you as i am gonna donate allmy money to an orphanage, tommorow i have a so-n-so(a very plain one) date, when should i pick you up?" well the reaction will tell you everything!!
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i dont know iv never had money to attract guys with.
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I dont have any money so it must be love. 2 years passed :D
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Lie detector. But that might not go down well. Honey i don't trust you could you do this lie detector for me. OOh i've got a better one. Strap yourself to a train line and your money to a different one. Which ever one she saves she loves. Actually don't do that, if she goes for the money you'll be more than heartbroken. A relationship should only work if both sides are honest. You could be up straight with her. Actually just go with someone elses idea mine suck
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Does this person seem to want to spend a lot of money? Go to really expensive places? Is this persons mind on you or somewhere else?
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if it money he/she wants try having one or two nights were by you spend next to nowt if he/she really loves ya then they should love the one to one time.next to that just come out n aks them!
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Well try saying no for a little while. And see if it changes the personality. If they are only in the relationship for the money, it shouldn't take long to see it.
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tell her you lost your job and see what she says.
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For me that would be too easy..I have no money. Tell him/her that you have decided to give it to charity or that you are going to cut your hours in half so you can spend more time together.
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Do not be over genorous and do not let them know you have money.
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give me your money and see if she stays
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If he doesn't ask me for any and showers me with gifts.Oh and has a JOB!
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Be poor
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by the way they treat you actions speak louder!! doesn't ask you for stuff.
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Really, I would think you could tell by how generous she is with what she has. If she is a kind and generous person chances are she just doesn't have a good concept of how much she is expecting you to spend. You may just need to set limits. But if she is selfish and blind to the misfortune of others then she will probably make your life a living hell.
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When they have your money where do they want to spend their time? That's your answer.
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if you treat them like a total piece of s*it & cheat on them & they still stay with you.
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I only make 40k a year, If they love me for my money they are really dumb.Of course thats how I like them quiet and dumb.(just kidding)
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I've got it made in that department... I don't have any money. You can tell by the way she paws your wallet while jamming her tongue down your throat and making fake passion noises... But the jokes on her... As Horatio Caine would say " But the wallet........ Is empty...... now isn't it?"
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Try an experiment. Stop being generous and you will discover the truth in a hurry.
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take your money out of the equation and there's your answer...
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Well, I would keep info re financial status to myself. Once s/he knows you have money, even if you change your behavior..you never know if s/he could be scheming.
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If she's VERY materialistic and always wants you buying her things...never asks to help pay for something...or says she'll get it...
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Don't reveal the amount of money you have when in a relationship.
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Maneater, make you work hard Make you spend hard Make you want all of her love She's a maneater make you buy cars make you cut cards make you fall real hard in love She's a Maneater, make you work hard Make you spend hard Make you want all of her love She's a maneater make you buy cars make you cut cards Wish you never ever met her at all!
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Tell her you're going to leave your fortune to homeless animals.
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If you were to get married I guess you could always see if they would agree with a prenuptial agreement first. Or just sign a IOU of all your value to someone who you know you can trust not back stabbing you......Really I don't know the answer. I guess you'll know down deep in you're heart if it's true love........Good Luck +3....M.C.S.
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2nd answer. Ask them to go with you to Goodwill to pick up a few household items or articles of clothing. This will either make it or break it.
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Lose your money. If they stay, it's you.
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Get twice as rich, and see if she loves you twice as much.
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The conversations start with "Will you buy me a" rather then "Can I get you a"
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If he has no money,he does not want to work and always wants me to pay for him, I`ll understand.From the first time if I see such a man, I`ll unfetstand all about him
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Thats a very hard answer to find out...some people can be very good actresses, believe me i know. On the other hand, I once dated a guy who was full of money but i really didnt see the money i seen him and i loved him not his money. The problem was is that he always thought he had to buy me stuff and give me money and pay for everything and it made me feel like he felt like he needed to buy my love and he never got the point that i felt like he didnt really understand that i wanted him not his money. He would always just hand me his credit card and send me to the mall but he never really spent time with me instead of just handing me money. So make sure if your the one with the bank, make sure your not like him and if your not then try to spend time with that person wthout doing anything that always takes money for a while.
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True love. That's hard to find. Usually, it boils down to lust. I've heard about men who are gold diggers. They're not going to come to me, for money. My only income is supplemental disability. And my pay is below the poverty line.
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if they truly love you and when you kiss for the first time it should be long if not and it is short they just want your cash
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I'm in the same boat your in buddy...i'd say stop "sharing" your money with her, but you'd be a stronger man than I...
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stop spending money on them and see if they notice and complain
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They don't want your money. Stop spending it on them see what happens.
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Probably shouldn't have used, "I drive a BMW" as a pick up line if you didn't want a Gold Digger!
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There are a lot of ways to tell if someone loves you, like their body language which is the best way to tell, then there is the facial expressions, and the way that person eyes you and the interest they have in you and what you are.
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Lol these answers are all great hilarious and very true. I was with a guy when I was 14 for his money mainly because I didn't have a father figure and my mom wasnt working for 5 or 6 years so I wanted someone to take care of me. I eventually grew to care for him but in the beginning I did use him for his money since he made it very available to me. If I had money now though I would sometimes take my man out to eat vice versa because I have got threw that stage already. Some girls are very good at hiding it but I used to tell him I needed things. And leave the store spending over $100. An obvious sign, from personally me, I would just flat out tell him what I wanted. " I want this bird ". I wouldnt tell him the price until he got there and seen the Cockatiel was $150 plus the cage and food. When I really like someone I go out of my way to get them things in the beginning also.
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Lol these answers are all great hilarious and very true. I was with a guy when I was 14 for his money mainly because I didn't have a father figure and my mom wasnt working for 5 or 6 years so I wanted someone to take care of me. I eventually grew to care for him but in the beginning I did use him for his money since he made it very available to me. If I had money now though I would sometimes take my man out to eat vice versa because I have got threw that stage already. Some girls are very good at hiding it but I used to tell him I needed things. And leave the store spending over $100. An obvious sign, from personally me, I would just flat out tell him what I wanted. " I want this bird ". I wouldnt tell him the price until he got there and seen the Cockatiel was $150 plus the cage and food. When I really like someone I go out of my way to get them things in the beginning also.
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