Am i lesbian? please don't laugh at it....
Hello.....i dont know if i always had a gay tendency, but i am a tomboy so... Ok lets start: i am girl and i am 13. I discovered kpop 1 year ago when i was 12 and until i discovered kpop i've never question my sexuality. I discovered a lot of kpop boy bands with very handsome boys and yes, i felt in love with some of them but no, not to much. It was just the love in that moment or day but when i discovered girl groups i just felt in love with them more than boys....since 6 months i am so in love with a member of a past group and she is just too perfect for this planet...i know it is so weird but please dont judge me...and im so in love that i sometimes cry when i see her with boys... i have never been in love like this....i am almost depressed because i love her to much and my love is growing up every day. I dont know what to do...i know i will never meet her because i live in europe, far away from South Korea...i just wanna know your opinions, you think im lesbian? Please dont laugh at this....
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Don't try and label it. Sounds like you just want to be like them. I did that when I was your age too. I loved girl singers/bands and bought all of their stuff and sang along with them. Some of my friends would start to dress like them. I say just relax and enjoy liking what you like. You don't need a label it at this point in your life.
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Thanks, but i don't want to be like her because i can't handle so much fans and celebrity things...i am just in love with her and nothing more. -
Ls1fst98 Dont label it, love is love...if thats who you feel a connection to so be it.
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No of course not. That is just a name that people have made up to try and force us into a certain classification. You are made to give and receive love but such a long-distance crush is not love. Sounds like you need to develop more concrete interests and work for yourself that you like and are meaningful to you so you don't spend so much time mooning about "love". Get busy and have a life.
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