ANSWERS: 47
  • Hubby should suck it up and be thankful he has a loving wife and food on the table period.
  • He should be grateful the wife is cooking for him, I sure wouldnt want to cook for someone is going to bitch when he doesnt like what is made, he can go to Mc Donalds, this kithcen just closed..
  • Food Fight
  • Well, if I had that problem, I don't think it is such a big deal. I would save myself for problems that really count. 1. I wouldn't tell my husband what I was going to fix for dinner. He would find out when he got home. 2. If the husband doesn't like what I fixed, I would just put it back in ther refrigerator for the next evening and tell him, "Ok, honey, it will be waiting here for you tomorrow night." 3. Then for that night he doesn't like what I cook, he can go in the kitchen and fix whatever his little heart desires. 4. The next evening, warm up the supper he missed yesterday. That is what I think!
  • I think that this is about more than just dinner.
  • i'd tell them to grow up, sounds so childish on both sides +5
  • I think that the husband shouldn't get upset, but rather be thankful for his dinner. And, that if he was really looking forward for the meal he thought he was having, he could have been civilized enough to comment to his wife how much he would appreciate if she makes it when she can.
  • They should both go out for dinner to what they like and have no expectations from each other.This type of cribbing never ends in life ever!+
  • i think that wench should have the dinner on the table with exactly what he wants on it, or she'll get a smack in the mouth! i want the pea's on the left hand side of the plate! WA-PAPP
  • I think in a perfect world, hubby would come home and eat dinner without whining, and then after dinner, casually ask if his wife could make the first dinner selection the following night, that he was looking forward to it. The hubby's anger sounds like disappointment. Makes sense to me since he didn't get what his tastebuds were waiting for all day. Yet to get mad isn't a good tactic. Good luck!
  • suck it up dude many more dinners to come,better tasting made with love,get on those knees and tell her.......how selfish....inconsiderate.....and hurtful to her you were a total jerk which you promise to never be again,and if she wouldn't mind making it for you tomorrow.
  • They're both inconsiderate.
  • Hubby should suck it up and be grateful he's getting dinner served to him. Wife should tell hubby dinner is a "surprise".
  • husband should make his own if he's not happy with what she makes. He has no right to be pissed at her for making HIM supper.
  • The husband should stop being a little baby and suck it up.
  • This reminds me of an article I have somewhere about couples communication entitled something like "What He Says, What He Means, What She Heard, What He *Should* Say" In this case... What He Says: "Did you put garlic in this?" What He Means: "Did you put garlic in this?" What She Hears: "You NEVER put enough garlic in the food" What He Should Say: "This is delicious."
  • Have GREAT sex-make sure you BOTH have the most ORGASMIC ORGASMS,and then go to Burger King and have it your way........
  • He is overreacting.
  • I think hubby should relax and learn to roll with it. And the wife should just not announce a menu next time.
  • I think they need to communicate a little more! If hubby wants certain things, maybe he could cook a little more often! If wife changes the menu, maybe she had a good reason for doing so.
  • Honestly? Getting pissed cause he didn't get what he wanted? How juvenile. Things change. Get over it, or make your own food. I can understand the wife getting upset. Spent time cooking, etc, only to have the husband get pissed off? Apparently wife = waitress.
  • Wife should tell Hubby that HE can make whatever HE wants.
  • He should releax and be greatful he has a wife to cook him dinner
  • I think they're both "NUTS", they deserve each other.
  • Both are inconsiderate of eachother. And neither of them appreciate the other, if the wife doesnt work and the husband comes home from a hard day at work, why shouldnt she make what she said she would for dinner. And the husband could always ask her to make it the next day. But personally I dont tell my fiance what I'm making for dinner. And he isnt picky so it never bothers him.
  • Lol wife played with husband's emotions but husband too being a bit too cruel to her not appreciating the hardwork that she put in preparing the dinner. appreciate her a nd take her out for dinner and have what you want to have.
  • too easily riled to anger
  • hubby should be thankful she even took time to cook the dinner for him. wife should tell hubby if she has a change of mind. honestly....
  • I think it's a riot! By that I mean funny. Life is too f..ing short to be concerned with the small crap. Edit. Oops I forgot the K.
  • The problem is more than likely in the bedroom or in the checkbook and not at the dinner table or what is on it. If food causes this type of reaction in the both of them, obviously something else led up to this childish out burst, one that neither one of them has been abe to communicate about effectivly so they lash out over chicken or beef. Deal with the real issues and forget about dinner.
  • I agree the hubby is being very childish to pout because he is not being served what he thought was going to be on the menu. It's possible his wife did not have all the ingredients to make the meal she originally planned so she went with plan B. If he truly Loves her, he would not treat her with such disrespect.
  • In our family we both cook. So in this case I can only speak for myself. I would find it slightly annoying if I was promised my favorite meal and it turns out to be something else but I would never say that to my husband. I would know it has something to do with my expectations and in this situation the food did not meet my expectation but that has nothing to do with my husband. My husband would be offended if I said 'oh, is that what we are eating'. I do not think that is weird. If I prepared a wonderful dinner and he said that to me I would sure be pissed. But I would never get pissed at him or show that I am pissed because the menu changed. Boohoo.
  • That's a tough one. I could see both sides, but the hubby shouldn't be a jerk about it.
  • Hubby should say thank you for the meal he has, and kindly ask his wife if she could make the other meal the following day. Thankfulness makes room for more of everything. Never undermine the efforts of your wife or next time you'll come home to cold cereal and a cold wife.
  • life is an unpredictable thing.
  • I think she should have dipped her boobs in the gravy met him at the door naked and said; Taste what we are having for dinner.
  • I understand why hubby would be disappointed but to be pissed is a bit much. That seems childish. Maybe he could be nice about it thank her for her work and ask her to fix the other meal the following night.
  • hubby is a punk
  • I can understand the wifes irritation.
  • Hubby is a spoiled brat who needs to grow up, he lacks gratitude, compassion or courtesy.
  • After a long day at work to support his family its highly inappropriate for her to deceive him like that. She needs to be true to her word in the future if she wants to remain a part of the household.
  • Don't like it? Get rid of the bitch.
  • Although I can understand when you get thinking about a certain food and looking forward to it that it can be a disappointment when you don't get it, it is,after all, just food. Sounds like there is more going on in that partnership than dinner.
  • Hubby should be happy he has a wife that cooks for him and eat what she makes.
  • one or both are looking for a fight. if she cooked something else he likes then a reasonable man would be no worse than just disapointed if she cooked something he doesn't like then she is looking for a fight
  • well she ought to have stuck to her decision, what is the point of telling somebody you'll make them something if you don't follow through? I'd be pissed too lol!
  • Hubby will get his dinner in his face!! Im the cook, he will eat or go to bed still hungry!! Only joking!! I often does that when I dont feel like to quickly stop for this or that ingredient. Then I change the menu. Hubby never complains. The same with him (as we take turns in making dinner cause we both work), he often tells me in the morning that he feels to make this and then when we get home he decides on making that. Doesnt bother me, as long as we and the kids have a nice dinner its ok with all of us if the menu change.

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