Are guys generally rude towards girls they like?
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Vannie prays for babycakes .
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No..... only guys that think they have to be. You know, the jackasses that think so highly of themselves, and think the way into a girls pants is by acting like they don't care. You know, the one's who get all the hot chicks that say they want a "good guy" but leave the good guy in the dust for the jackass they'll have a fling with.
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Only if their A holes.
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Not the smart ones
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Sometimes they are, usually because they are afraid that showing interest makes them look emotional (which translates into weakness in our hyper-masculine society). They also hope that girls will work harder for their attention, because something that's difficult to attain may be seen as more valuable. I fell into this trap when I was less experienced with dating, but now I've realized that if a guy is rude, I don't have to put up with that. We women are valuable too, and no one deserves to be treated rudely. Furthermore, if he's being rude to you when he should be trying to win your heart with his impressive charm and sweetness, then he'll probably treat you even worse if you actually do start dating.
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I would hope not. If someone was rude to me I would think they didn't like me and that they didn't respect me. It's silly to be rude to people you like. Why wouldn't you show them from your heart how you feel?
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Boys are. When they are in 2nd or 3rd grade. As grown ups we should expect to be treated with kindness and common courtesy.... NOTHING less.
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The really immature, socially awkward ones.
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Not if they have been raised properly, to have respect and consideration for others.
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usually its more of a form of flirting and the easiest way to flirt. joking at first maybe then it can kind of get annoying or out of hand. i do it a lot to be honest. but as long as you don't go to far with it and you know what your doing it can turn out to be good. or the guys a total dick and hes only after one thing. you know.
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It depends on the person
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Some guys are......but thats just kinda stupid. Real guys....will be super nice to you, remmber the PRINCESS BRIDE. I always thought it would be awesome for the guy to say "as you wish *smile*" Anybody seen it?
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I don't think so.
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Immature males might be, but men would not be.
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Your question reminds me of a cartoon I read years ago...this little boy kid is talking to his friend about a certain girl he liked..he said "I didn't know what to say so I hit her!" I've always been fond of that. Some guys are clueless and uninformed and thoughtless so they are rude because they confuse being rude with being macho/clever/strong and they are wrong. Happy Tuesday sweetie! :) ((hugs))
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I wouldn't think all are but depends... Sometimes I find that showing off tends to get a little overdone by some guys and it ends up sometimes coming out as rude and annoying....
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Some guys are not like myself but girls are act like that are called in Japan are called tsundere
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maybe not so much rude, more of a playful banter
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Definitely not normal ones
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Not me? Im nicer to girls i like.
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No. I think that's obvious. I think you're well aware that everyone is 'unique'.
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Yeah...... if their 7!!!!
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Not that I kno of unless he just has this strange way of letting her kno he cares or maybe he does not know how to show his affection in a loving way.
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To an extent. You don't totally want to screw something over.... but if you're trying to hide it/figure out what to do, being a bit rude is probally the best TEMPORARY solution. (Playful banter fits the bill better, but who want's to read that in place of however many times rude was used? lol!)
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some of us never got over the playground in elementary school syndrome
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It wouldn't make much sense if they like getting laid
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Oh, golly I'd hope not! I try not to be.
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Not everyone is the same but generally they do that to cover their emotions.
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personaly i dont to this.i hate trying to hide my feelings.and i am bored of doing it
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Only if they're in middle school. Other than that, no.
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1. Why are u generalizing people? 2. What u consider rude, other people consider open. 3. Some girls get all bitc%y when guys hide their feelings. So when some of them get what they want they then turn the coin and do what ur doing right now. Some women are so confusing sometimes -shakes head- (notice i said some ALOT)
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If there preteens then yes.
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Vannie, This is a BIG no. On the whole guys do not do this. Men are usually logical, men who do this would have a lesser chance to pass on their genetics and their DNA would not last long.
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this could be a love/hate relationship type
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