What was the reason that ended your last friendship?
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We lost contact over time as she was busy with school & sport, & I was struggling with depression & didn't want to contact anyone. I think she found other friends who she would see more often.
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I didn't end it as such, but I made he decision to stop contact because I no longer considered that person to be a friend. At least, not the kind of person I wanted to be friends with after I saw the way she treated others.
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i can think of only one friendship that "ended" by choice and it had to do with a horrific betrayal of trust
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I found out she was being friendly with me so I might get my husband to get someone she didn't like in trouble at their jobs! My husband is in management and she thought he would help!!! No way. He has better things to do with his time. It was very sneaky so I don't waste my time with her anymore.
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Caught him sleeping with my fist wife, now my ex.
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Hi Chief, As far as I'm concerned, I'm always starting new friendship with others. It's not any kind of fight or quarrel that end up my friendship with others. It may be because I lose contact with them or it may be because of both us not seeing or talking for a long time.
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We were in a co-dependent relationship and I finally realized I couldn't live that way anymore so I broke ties.
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He started going out with my ex-wife and she insisted we not hang out anymore. +3
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I don't know the reason. We were at a party and she was happy one minute, but screaming abuse at me the next. I have no idea why and nor do the other dozen people who witnessed her out of character and very out of control behavior. She left without offering any explanation or apology and has not spoken to me since. ~ I don't want or need people like that in my life, so it's best she moved on to wherever life has taken her :)
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She was getting married and asked me to be a bridesmaid. Never called me not once to tell me when a fitting was or anything. Emailed me one time to tell me a time, went found out it was cancelled after sitting in davids bridal for half hour. Emailed me once more to tell me it was rescheduled I said I had to work and she never contacted me again. I decided not to even bother anymore. If she cared she would have called, but she never did. Screw her.
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I realised we only spoke when she wanted to speak to me whereas if I called her she couldn't get off the phone quick enough. We only ever done what she wanted to do, if I suggested something it was immediately shot down. I also realised that when we did speak the majority of our conversations amounted to her moaning about stuff. It finally ended when she called me and asked me to go to see a movie with her, I said no because I'd seen it already and thought it was awful and she said "fine, well you know where I am when you do want to come with me". She hung up and I just never called her back and that was about 3 years ago.
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Irresponsibility !!!!!
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She has new boyfriend that's a straight up sucker a$$ mutha f**** that I can't stand and anywhere she goes, he goes, so I had to dead our friendship.
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lies
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because they didn't make it to my Party:):) I am throwing a Party for Dreanna yo..if you want to come let me know..email me..tjoebaxter@gmail.com:):) Its going to be a good time Sweet Muffin!!
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A betrayal of confidence with a few lies thrown in for good measure. I hate being stabbed in the back.
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Just that they irritated me and my bestfriend, and basically we are a team in that regards back in the day.
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Money, he left me while at work, to go with my sister BIL and mother to Florida, to make a shitload of money, LMAO, it didnt quite work out very well for all of them. They all owe the government, mucho money, heheheh!!! Karmas a Bitch! -
There came a realization that the friend had not really respected me or anyone else, including himself. I got very tired of babysitting this "adult" and it was only dragging me down.
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I don't remember ever walking away from a friendship, I'm not a fair-weather friend. If I give my friendship out to someone it is because I care. I don't call too many people friends. I have had friends walk away from me. For whatever reason they chose to walk away, If they need me, I will be there for them.
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Mark
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They were way too into sex, and it was scary as hell! ~nods head~
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The chick stole from me! Damn people!
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According to him it was because I am a bitch during certain times of the month. According to me it was because he had the "I told you so" attitude. Either way, neither of us was being very supportive of eachother at the time. Now we have sort of patched things up to where we can talk and be polite but we are nowhere near on the level we were.
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Betrayal. After many years I found out she was a lying, manipulative, back-stabbing bitch
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oh why u in negative points? my good friend became politician and than bad qualities adopted.he making money from poor peoples than i break my friendship with him.5
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I fell in love with her and she got married and we just drifted apart. Probably my fault, before her husband got back from overseas we spoke every day for hours on end even with her aware of how I felt. She always called but I just don't feel comfortable calling her because of my feelings and the fact she is married now.
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We drifted apart and neither of us worked hard enough to stay friends.
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I stopped drinking alcohol at the bars and she continued. Didn't have time for me if I wasn't going to go to the bar with her I guess. Haven't see her in years and we live in the same town, population of around 6,000.
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Because she said bad things about me behind my back that were ot ture. And my mother friends picked her over me because everyone feels sorry for her because she dose the "I'm fat feel sorry for me" When I never had a prob with her, and she never did nothing about it. She was upset coz I got a bf *sign*
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She betrayed me :-( we were good friends but she suddenly left me to go with the bullies and started bullying me - i will never forgive her she is a shit and doesn't deserve my friendship
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dishonesty
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driffting away i guess, starting lives of your own. work, kids and all that jazz. other then that my best friend sleept with my boyfriend when i was away. i came home and for gave them. next time i was gone they did it again. also i was sending money home to him and he was spending it on her and his drug addicting that he started when i was gone. got home and said FUCK them both!
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She lied about EVERYTHING. Stupid crap like whether or not she straightened her hair and how far she went with her boyfriend.
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...he was, lets see how i should say this...a perv. so when he got weird and wouls not keep his thoughts to himself about me...i told him to get lost and chunked my phone at his head. Well i had to become friends with the verizon guy to get a new for free, but that friendship is dead on my end. He still calls me, but i decide not to answer the phone.
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She was using and taking advantage of me.
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I couldn't trust her sincerity anymore, because everything started to have a negative undertone. She was very judgemental towards everything and everyone and I like to be around positive people. My last straw was discovering her to be a hypocrit and undercover racist. I don't have room for anyone like that in my life.
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She dumped me for her boyfriend!!! Bless her though she lost all her friends and if they break up she will have no1!!!!
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We had a big argument & she said some very rotten things, then used passages from the Bible to justify her attitude and accusations. I am no longer her friend, and have developed major doubts about my faith - or former faith I should say. (there were hints of doubt already, but she really drove me to the brink)
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The only reason why she ever wanted to hang out with me (towards the end) was to have an excuse so she can go and cheat on her hubby.
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a mixture of him telling my secrets and me stiking back by expsing his
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We were best friends and we dated brothers. We were really young and she told me things about her relationship which I wasn't sure about how to deal with. I accidentally told her boyfriend's brother (who I later dated) and their parents made them have a "family meeting". They were both very pissed at me and it was never the same again.
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Life taking us in different directions and not having time for each other.
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Someone attempting to take advantage of me, and then discovered theft of some of my stuff. I can't stand thieves.
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Because i STOP trying to be a rescuer and let things teach her lessons of consequences. I stopped being Mr, Nice to people who don't play fair.
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i didn't like who she had become and what she was doing. also a bit of jealousy on my part, and some mutual frustrations. it was a really intense friendship for a while and i ended it pretty abruptly.
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She said something very insulting to me and I have no idea how to come back to the friendship that it once was.
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He went out drinking with me, drank too much and got in a bad mood because he couldnt get into the club then just walked home without telling me. I rang him 3 times the next day and the day after and got no answer.
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she back stabbed me, told my secrets, and over mean
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He decided to turn into some wannabe gangsta and robbed my house.
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She was a boy chaser and didn't have time to hang out with any of her girlfriends unless they had an eligible boyfriend for her to steal.
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She was dating a really good friend of mine, we all went on a trip 300 miles away my guy friend was drunk and she ended up having sex with his best friend who was also drunk....Her and I were not drunk I told her to back off and she didnt listen....then she got mad I wouldnt chose her over my guy friend.... I'm not sure this was worth losing a friend over but thats what happend.
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u we were both to young i think i couldnt change into wat she wanted me to be and she coulndnt give me wat i wanted now she just turned 18 she got pregant a month and half later after we broke up and is getting kicked out of her home
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My friend or my ex friend have fallen in love with the guy who is attracted to me. I couldn't bear that,the weird thing that I don't love the guy but I feel that he belongs to me!!
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Money what else.
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Wrong frequency. >>>><<<<<
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The kid was a heroin addict who never payed me back any money but would always ask for more money.
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she was an obama supporter and I wasnt. She called me a racist for not supporting him and said she would never talk to me again. Aint heard from her since. Good riddens to that I say. I had explained to my (former) best friend, that it had nothing to do with skin color but rather his policies I didnt agree with. But she just didnt see how anybody could not support Obama. A little heavy on the kool-aid jug for her I guess.
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She was negative 99.9% of the time, I just couldn't handle it anymore.
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He changed jobs and I will never see him again more than likely. He was an awesome friend thought and I will never forget the 10 years we had.
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she left for another guy.
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drugs and lies
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well technically it never ended... we just stopped talking, my one friend decided she was too busy with her boyfriend to talk to me and my other friend since her boyfriend and her only work and live and go to the same university together, apperently she has no time to talk to us
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I truly hope that this is not the end for she and I, but she and her best friend were having problems and I started talking to her best friend about it. She did not like that at all, so she kicked us both out of her life. I miss her so much already.
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i did nt,never had friends only asossiates
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girl came between me and my best friend and now we are not talking
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We are roommates, we study together and used to be really good friends. They kept complaining about me not doing enought for the household, not enought for the group works and I felt really bad and did my best to improve. And they still kept complaining. Whenever I made a mistake, they made me feel like the worst person ever. At some point I realized, all they do is complain. I cannot be blamed for everything that goes wrong, and they are not perfect either. And why would I want to be friends with people like this?
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it hasent happend in a long time, if it does, it will be to do with love........not the opposite.
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manipulation and she made it clear that the friendship was all about her, what i needed was of no importance...i struggled with the relationshp for a very long time but it didn't take long of me not being available to meet her needs and she moved on...
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Became better friends with her older brother. Bad idea, but, what can I do?
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She had me beat up over a guy, and told anyone who would listen I was a whore. I've had one real female friend since then, all the rest have been guys.
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I don't know, I'm not even sure if it's over.
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couldn't trust her. at all.
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They apparently changed the area code and no one bothered to let me know!
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I found out she didn't care about me at all.
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Because of cheating, lying,messing around and breaking nice relationships with families. Bitching around and pimping around, dishonest, untrustworthy, having sex with strange people then comes home and lying with life partners.
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Aaaaa he ask for a divorce (me not knowing he wanted to be with his long time girlfriend)... grrrr
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He was mad I got back together with my boyfriend. So he said I "made my choice" (whatever that means) and he stopped talking to me. We were best friends for a while, I'm not giving up people to make others happy.
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I realized that he had more emotional problems than I felt like dealing with. He was looking for a patsy more than anything else. I love myself too much to allow that into my existence.
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me and nancy were best friends for about 4 years. we were like glue and paper everyday and we were both always there for each other..but then she found out about a stupid recording i made without thinking and meaning anything of what i said along with another girl (whom she hated at the time) two years ago.. and even though i apologized to her at least a dozen times crying my eyes out at the same time, she wouldn't take it and so we stopped being best friends ever since. now she is best friends with the girl whom i made the recording with back then, even though she used to say all sorts of nasty things about her when we were still friends.
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she wanted marriage and kids and I did not. she also cheated on me and tried to stab me later that night because I did not get mad when I caught her. I just acted like I was a friend and actually shook the guys hand.
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We moved to opposite sides of the country and sort of slowly lost touch.
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Bitch was crazy and needy.
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She wanted us to move in together but I was not ready because she wanted more than I wanted to give at the time. So she told me that if we could not be together she did not want to be friends. Was a great girl too. Sucks.
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I got tired of being LIED to ... +5
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I found out that the woman was trying to make plans with my girl friend behind my back. My girl told me about it cause she and I do not hide any thing from each other. I contacted the other couple and told them we no longer want to be in contact cause of this .
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The irritating nature of my friend . She was a kind of sticky types and i hate those types of persons .She wanted me to walk with her,hand in hand, talk with her , talk about her. omg she was an irritating one. Because of this nuisance behavior of her my grades began to fall and i totally hate that too. thank god i left her
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She ruined my birthday by saying she was going to commit suicide and told me to f&%k off on her myspace status that same day. I broke it off because a friend would never do that to another person.
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He got mean and judgemental all of a sudden. He said that I was psycho and offensive to him all the time. I loved him very much, but it was time to let go. My heart is shattered and smashed.
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my last frindship ended due to selfishness - my friends, not mine. Only when the relationship cooled did I know that everyone else felt and saw the 'selfishness', it just took me a bit longer.
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My friendship with my brother's ex-girlfriend. She still loves him and he still loves her, but she has to move on with her life, and is marrying someone else, a guy who isn't a complete monster like some of her last boyfriends. She's ending the friendship, sort-of, but she doesn't want to hurt him (and by extension, me) by talking to him while she's married, knowing he still loves her. All three of us agree that its for the best, but its still not easy on my brother.
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My so called child hood friend back stabbed me and i believe she never liked me in the first place..
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Two lads I used to hang around with in my village.. they were immature to the max, ignorant, socially inept, nasty and thick as pig shit and as a pair they were a really awful combination, notoriously dreaded by all. They used to get off on winding people up and causing trouble for no good reason and often to people that didn't deserve it, with a complete lack of respect for everyone. One day they played a prank on me that was purely spiteful and after that I told them to f*ck off. (:
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My friend's new boyfriend which she's marrying in half year. He changed her completly.
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I stopped talking to him cause he kept lying to me and had embarrassed me infront of people.
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Suicide. Oh, not mine!
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she is ok with her man abusin her and i love and car for her to much i couldn't just stand there and watch it keep happen.......so i opted out
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