Do you believe that a husband and a wife should sleep in the same bed?
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AnonymousGirl
ANSWERS: 64
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Yes.....and the dog:)
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i dont see anything wrong with it
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If she or he has paranoid tendencies, be respectful
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It really depends on their situation. Maybe their relationship works better if they don't, or because of snoring or similar reason, they can't get any sleep in the same bed. Bottom line: do what works.
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why wouldn't they? they are married. They deserve to be intimate and sleep next to one another building up there marriage.
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I think they should sleep on bunk beds...on top of each other:):)
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whatever they want but if they love eachother they should want to
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I would want too, but to each their own.
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If they want to, then yes.
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If they care to do so, yes. I know that some people, especially if they are very restless or have other sleeping problems may prefer to sleep in their own bed and if they both agree, I think that is fine.
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Ummmm this isn't the 1950's, nor is it a 1950's sitcom. Lucy and desi have been gone for a looooong time. I say one bed.
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Absolutely. Sharing a bed demonstrates mutual trust and facilitates bonding.
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Depend's on the bond they have between them.
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Yes, if they can manage to do so. Sometimes one partner or the other will be restless during sleep, or snore loudly, or need more or less covers, and they should take that into account. But by and large, I would think that sleeping together in the same bed is a much-to-be-desired thing! I can barely get to sleep if my Vicky isn't there for me to hold and snuggle with! : D
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Ideally it would be nice but in cases where you have snoring that can't be helped, medical conditions or very restless sleepers, it's not always possible nor advisable.
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I kick my husband, steal the covers, allow any of the cats in the bed with us.... I am surprised he hasn't thrown me out of the bed and told me to sleep elsewhere. Plus, sometimes I fart.
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Not only should they sleep in the same bed but it should usually go something like this.... Monday: Spoon Tuesday: Spoon naked Wednesday: Spork (that's a spoon with a little poke) Thursday: S** with her on top. Give him back rub directly after. Friday: S** with him on top. Go to sleep directly after Saturday: Try to have S** until he farts then sleep with pillow over face. Sunday: Facing away from each other snoring
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Depends on sleeping habits, SNORING! work schedules, sick child, days off if not same, each one's temperature needs, bed cover habits, bladder control. NEVER use bedroom for TV, one reads other hates lights etc. NO phone for social or business calls on a regular basis. For some twin beds or adjustable mattresses and temp control help.
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At least until the other falls to sleep....I dont know what I would do if my husband slept in another room....I get lonely without him for 1 night (on the couch)...HE snores like no other...AND I MEAN LIKE NO OTHER (you can hear him...outside the house, in the back yard...and a little down the ally)....but i got used to it
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As a general rule; I say YES ... a husband and a wife should share the same bed . However; as mentioned thruout the other answers .. there are reason that it might be better or more comfortable for one or both of the couple IF they had seperate beds, if not seperate bedrooms .. It just all boils down to each individule case and situation.
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yes, i do. the closeness and quiet will bring them closer together. this doesnt mean she has to give up sex when she isnt being treated right, but still share the bed and let the fight dissolve itself through affection. ive gone to bed angry on occassion, but i always wake up in his arms. its hard to stay mad then! and the morning sex is great!
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Well, yes, I think so. No experience on this but that's been the tradition and age old practice right?
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Not unless they want to. It's not my place to say what someone else should or should not do. For me, it brings a sense of closeness and you end up having more sex that way, which is always a good thing.
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Definitely!
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Is this a Test Question? Of Course.
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Depends if one snores! Otherwise yes.
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It's up to them to work it out. Some people have a difficult time sleeping together bed because one partner snores.
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Yes they should unless there are serious health problems and it is difficult for both to sleep together. A couple should sleep together if they have a healthy sex life and even if they don't. They can still snuggle and share the same bed.
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PSHH...YAH! It's there choice though. +
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Yes of course. They married each other because they love each other and they want to spend the rest of their life with their spouse.
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My husband and I don't. We snuggle and chat and read together and....you know...and everything else in the master bedroom, but I've never been able to sleep in bed with another person, and even have a hard time with someone even just in the room. For us it works, and I'm actually a little insulted by all the answers saying that if a couple is close and the marriage is healthy than they should sleep in the same bed. It is not for anyone to judge.
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where else would they sleep?
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no doubt yes!
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I just ruined your question's otherwise perfect total score by adding 5 points! You now stand at 74! Sorry! :-)
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yes I would not be married to a man that did not want to sleep in the bed with me.
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Yes.
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Every couple is different, so no. They can if they want to, but they shouldn't have to. To each thier own.
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if they can, i would think so. but its all how each person in the relationship feels
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My grandparents had separate beds and they lasted a long time they enjoyed there sleep , maybe they had it right.
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I sleep in the same bed but I don't like to be messed with any more. long story
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YEAH !! why else wouldn't they??? The only thing I can see for not wanting to is loud snoring. That i can see.
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Well, it would certainly be easier for them to start a family that way.
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i should say so after all they are married .
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I think boyfriend and girlfriend should sleep in the same bed. So yes.
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Yes, well we certainly do
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unless one of them has a nasty rash he/she could pass on,yes,they should sleep in the same bed.
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Heellllyeah yo...
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All by themselves?
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Yes, I knew that my marriage was going the wrong direction when I got kicked out of the bed. If there's snoring involved (and yes, sometimes it's the LADY) get it fixed. BUT whatever you do STAY in the same bed! It's important.
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no. if they're both okay with not sleeping in the same bed, why should anyone else? what's the problem with them not sleeping in the same bed?
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I used to have a mindset that it was important a husband and wife sleep in the same bed until I read an interview with Joanne Woodward, who stated she and Paul Newman have separate bedrooms to sleep but when they wanted to have a tryst, they would go to the others' bedroom. If a couple feels it adds sizzle to their relationship and also gives them their own space when they need it, I think it's a good idea.
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only if their still together.
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one of the many reasons why people get marry, i think...
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well i would think so. isn't that one reason why people get married?
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Only if they choose to. I don't think I want anyone up under me nightly.
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Only if they BOTH want to, and can. One of us's snoring tends to keep me awake, so thus separate bedrooms.
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No shoulds! Only wants!
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Only if they choose to.
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Depends on how loudly the spouse snores. I wish I had my own bedroom.
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I wouldn't want to not sleep in the same bed, but whatever you like I guess
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Yeah? I dont see why you wouldnt. Thatd be weird..I couldnt imagine sleeping in a different bed when i stay at my boyfriends. No falling asleep cuddling? =/ Unless of course the person moved around too much or something like that i guess. Each to their own.
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In todays world, I know couple that sleep opposite shifts because of work! I know of couples that sleep in seperate rooms because one of them snoars. But, love goes on! It is nice if you can sleep together, but not always practical.
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There are no shoulds, there are only options.
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Yes they should if they love each other
Mountain Momma 
Moongrim 
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