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He really likes you but for some reason it's not gonna work and he doesn't know why
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It means he's tapping your best friend.
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It's you..but he doesnt want to be mean :-(... Sorry
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i've used it on a guy before. what i really meant was that "yes, it is you, but i don't want to make you cry.... again.... so i will just place all the blame on myself and some apparent personality flaw that will not allow us to be together." if a guy were to say it to me, i would assume that they were trying to get out of the relationship with minimal damage, or minimal effort. but this may not be the case.
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It means he is spineless and can't tell you that he just doesn't feel the same anymore. He's trying to make out that its all his fault but in a gutless way because the way he says it will make you feel guilty.
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It means he is trying to be nice. He does not want to be with you, but he does not want to hurt your feelings.
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he means it is you not him. he's just not that into you.
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Dont expect anything from him for Valentines Day........lol
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It means that he does not think he can proceed on in a relationship with you but he does care about you and does not want to hurt your feelings.
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Trying to get out with minimal damage.. Fox700
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one of two things. ether he has a busy life and doesn't want you to get hurt by it or he thinks this line makes him seem like the good guy.
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That he's got some problem with tlking about his problems/issues, wether those issues are with you, himself or something else. Its him, and you're better off without him
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You should go see "He's just not that into you"
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"It's you, it's you, OH MY GOD IT'S YOU!" Would be my best approximation.
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Translation: "this isn't working and I am too afraid of confrontation so I will choose the most obvious way out that you cannot argue by placing all the blame on myself"
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It means he's got an issue with staying interested.
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I can't deal with tellin you whats up so i'll gonna ust end it here
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It means that you are toast. Move on.
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Its the cop out way of saying - I'm not interested in seeing you anymore. If you believe he is genuine then sometimes a man may be afraid of committment or will let you go to find a better life for yourself, believing that in the future you would leave him anyway.
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Okay...I take back my last answer that it means its you and he doesnt want to hurt your feelings because I recall Ive actually said that to a few guys before and I meant it...there's was absolutely nothing wrong with them, I just wasnt ready to be in a relationship at the time...so I guess it can go both ways
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That it's you but he's just not going to say it.... OR he's just not into you.
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It probably means he is being polite and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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I've said that once and I think I was being truthfull. I was just coming off a divorce and it just seemed weird. That being said, I just didn't think it would work. And if you are wondering, three dates, no sex.
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That means it's you
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It means he doesn't think there's anything wrong with you but he is not ready for a relationship with you. You should respect that and not over-analyze it. Life is like that.
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He means: It really IS me, I'm an a-hole, I wouldn't know a good woman if she were rght in front of me, I am incapable of recognizing greatness, I won't find anyone better than you but I'm going to take my chances because I am a shallow being.
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It's a nice way of saying how although she is a psycho... it is his fault you are breaking up, because he simply doesn't like psycho's. Which is not her fault really. It's a nice phoney assed statement meant to defuse potential nutters... and save face at the same time. Nice guys do this... Even though it's not all that nice a thing to do. If I am being nutty... I like my perspective served raw and take it like a shot of whiskey... straight, no chaser!
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I take it to mean; you are a wonderful, fantastic person but he just not in to you all the way. If it's not there completely, it's just not there. I speak from experience, I've met a lot of wonderful, fantastic guys in my life that female friends of mine said they would have given their right arm to go out with. But if it's not there all the way, it's just not there. Just date and have some fun, that's what I'm gonna do.
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It means... I'm a guy who has no other way to break up with someone because I'm useless at that type of thing so I'm gonna say that.
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He very likely really means, " It's not you, it's me." Simply. Take him for his word. Not knowing you or the guy or the circumstances makes it difficult for a more specific answer. [ To add a myriad of connotations to his words is your choice. Other AB answers here certainly have suggestions if you choose to go that route ] I wish only the best to you, especially if you're hurting. Be well.
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It means something is bothering him. Chances are he doesn't like you.
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probably that its his fault
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Sorry, but I am just not that into you.
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that its you but hes lying
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That he's not mature enough to have an adult conversation about his feelings. It really is all his fault move on.
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