What do you think about 27 year old son yelling at his mother to the point of cursing F...you
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Linda
ANSWERS: 53
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Well, it's not very nice, but I'm 25 and sometimes conflicts between my mother and I go that direction.
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I think someone needs to knock him on his ass !
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must have been a really bad mother...
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That he needs a good smacking. That kind of crap is tolerated these days, for some strange reason. Honour thy father and mother is not just a biblical thing, it should be ingrained into every brain: Our elders have been here before us, they've experienced more, they gave us life, they deserve our respect. He needs to grow up.
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I would think he's a dirtbag. Even if she's an awful person he still owes his life to her.
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if he lives at home i'd throw his ass out and if he doesn't i'd still thhrow his ass out after a good f***ing beating
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If he lives at home, kick him to the curb. If not, kick him out until he apolotizes. If he does it again, he doesn't GET to come home for a while.
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I am thinking someone needs a good, old fashion ass kicking.
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I think Mother and Son have a serious communication issue.
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It kind of depends on what the mom did.
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If I ever heard my daughter cuss her mother out I'd throw her out on her ass.
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I have a son nearly that age and lucky for me he has more respect for me and would never say anything like that to me,but saying that it doesnt suprise me as only the other day i witnessed a girl of about 13 years old tell her mother to F**k off you old slag...i was dying to slap her across the face.
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You might consider what it is - assuming you are the Mother - that you hope to hear or accomplish - by asking the question? In this answer may be your own healing. If you are, for example, seeking to get agreement that this behavior is disagreeable, even offensive, I doubt that most won't agree with you. But then where are you? Justified in being angry or resentful. Is this how you want to feel? Congratulations, now open your backup of bad memories and hurt feelings to make room for this new story of how you are a victim - this time to the evil and disrespectful Son. My suggestion is that you don't fixate on your Son, but rather on you. You have to live in your head, in your thoughts, not his. Forgive him, which means 'let it go' completely like it never happened. That does not mean you need to willingly subject yourself to this again, however, you have a great opportunity here to take a good look at yourself, what transpired, etc....don't miss it... If you'd rather be right about his "wrongness," prepare yourself for more of this type of experience...if not with him, then with someone else....
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If he is living at home, then kick the bum out. If not tell him not to talk to you until he could act like a normal human being. People shouldn't talk to their mothers that way no matter what. Best of Luck
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I think that is shocking and terrible. We shouldn't treat ANYONE like that, let alone our own parents!
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Disrespectful. Shameful. No manners, morals or scruples. Doesn't even matter what Mom did.
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I'd hope he has his own house, because he wouldn't be staying in mine anymore.
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I would think that his mother didn't raise him to show respect.
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He's always had a temper issue but not to the point of violence against anyone. His mother is a very good mother and the situation is that he always yells and curses and his mother doesn't like it and always ask him to stop yelling and cursing then finally ask him to leave until he agressively comes at her as if to threaten. Once he spit at her
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This grown man has never learned how to be a real man. Has he had a Father that taught him how to treat a woman, especially his own Mother? If he were my son I would ask him to get some help with his obnoxious behaviour and to not come back until he can show respect. If he has a wife, she is to be taught to never take this abuse, it will only worsen and she could be in danger. Seek help for yourself mom from a qualified councilor.
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What is the context here> If you ever dealt with my mother-in-law, you would understand why a child might "mistreat" their parents so. Are you saying that parents CAN NEVER do wrong? That they NEVER deserve it? Even if they are physically, emotionally, or verbally abusive and that abuse is why it got to throwing F-bombs? To all those that just said "Whup his ass", I hope your dad takes a double hit of PCP and beats some sense into you during the resulting psychotic rage. Maybe when you come to, you will understand that the world is a bit more complex and that a simple ass-beating is not always the answer.
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sounds like my brother
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She is seeing her finished 'product' now. Aint NO WAY I would curse my mom and I don't care what I was on. Mom don't play that! My mom is only 115 pounds soaking wet and I still would NEVER think about talking to her that way so how I see it is like this: As long as he didn't touch me - we would be all good in the hood - if I felt threatened by any of his antics... Oh it's going down like some strangers in the street.
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well after I finished reading the rest of the story you kindly posted ... Im afraid he needs to knocked on his smart arse ..picked back up and knocked back down again then stood over and told a few home truths , he sounds like a right little piece of shit and I'm afraid if I heard him he would be picking his smart mouth up of the floor and he would be made to appoligise to his mum then I would put the fucking fear of god into this little boy ...because thats what he is a little boy
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It sounds like that guy needed to be shown alot more tough love when he was growing up! I would be speechless if either of my sons said or did that. Speechless until they convinced me they were literally losing their mind when it was said.
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Where's the Father? And what made him that mad ,maybe it's you'r falt and you don't want to take the blame for it.If your in the right, he shouldn't talk like that.Maybee he needs to learn some maners or needs love from Father.
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Part of me thinks its better to cuss out a person than hit them, but its his mom and in front of other people. Thats pretty pathetic. Sounds like he's a 27 year old as*hole.
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My daughter sent me a note that said...I don't just love you because youre my mom but I love you because you're the BEST mom and even a better grandmother. My struggle is that I smacked/slapped his arm when he started cursing me...I guess I could have got out of bed but I've been down with phneumonia for a week and was feeling pretty week and not in the best state of mind so I sat up and slapped his arm to get him off my bed and out of my room.
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How often does it happen and what provoked him? It's obviously not a GREAT situation, but people fight. Even people with healthy relationships fight. And unfortunately, to a 27 year old, the "F" word isn't the be all end all swear word it is to a woman likely in her mid 50s. A lot of people in their teens and 20s drop the F bomb pretty casually. I mean, of course he used it because he knew it would offend his mother, but in the heat of the moment probably didn't stop to think just how MUCH impact the word would have to someone her age. Like I said, it's not GOOD, but I'd need a lot more specific details to know just how malicious it was intended to be.
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That is soooo BAD!There is the saying "Spare the rod and spoil the child"...parents should mold their children especially when they're young and still growing up. "Tough love" is needed at times. If he's that old and is cursing at you then let him live on his own! Leave him alone! He's d*mn old enough to know his values and his doings. In fact, he's too brainless to think of other good ways to show and control his anger towards a very special person. He's so shallow and is very unwise to say such things to his mother. As for the mother, never forget but do forgive. ^.^
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That depends entirely on the situation.
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Unless the kid is living with the parents or depends on them for an income he should be able to do what he wants. After all he is a grown up and he must have had a reason to say that to his mom.
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A good dropkick to the sack is in order.
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My brother would do this up until maybe the past five years and he is now 38. You left out the part about threatening her life with a steak knife.
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He's 27 years old. He is considered an adult according to the law. He should know better. I'm 18 years old, and even I know better...
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I think " is it too late for an abortion ?"
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I cant say my parents were strict but there was a few things that were never acceptable. And that was one of them. I have children of my own now and right from the start I have introduced the same rule. Its disrespectful and at 27 he should definitely know better.
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guess it all depends on why
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He either has an anger management problem or he has a good reason.
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Never appropriate. Parents deserve more respect than that, (mostly.)
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i think that at 27 he should be able to control that anger...it should never reach that point
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Personally a worthless ass*hole without more details.
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Is he still living at home? Don't take the shit I'd say, Tell him to move out, if he won't go then call the cops. I'm 27 myself and my 19 yo bro does the same to my mother sometimes, I told I'd slam him myself if I saw it or about it again, they brought you into the word and brought up, Look after your mother, I do, My grandmother too. They both took care of me, My dad was never around.
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It is completely absurd. No matter HOW old you get, you ALWAYS respect your parents!
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Even though if the wrong is from you, you still do not deserve to be called as such. He has no sense of respect that you had suffered for 9 months when he was in your belly and the many hours in the night to care for him while he was a baby and that you have to put up with all kinds of nonsense from him over the years. Now that he is an adult ,it is unjust of him to treat you that way.May he realize this soon and that both of you should find a way of patching up things to get the respect which has been lost.May your family live normal again soon.Take care.
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I would think he is disrespectful. I'd NEVER say that to my parents (or anyone else).
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I would never do that. When I was age 27, my mother still could probably beat me senseless if I did.
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i've never met a parent worthy of being told F.U - and i know parents that have told their kid they should have been aborted - SERIOUSLY. now that parent i think is an absolute idiot, but for the sheer fact that htye are the parent they still don't deserve the F.U...and at 27?....what an ass...
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What any normal person would think...that is totally unacceptable.
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I dont care how old he is. That is very rude and very unmannarly. He deserves to be slapped!
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I would ask the mother why she is willing to put up with that type of behavior. She is just as responsible as he is if she allows the behavior to continue.
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My niece is 24 and she never got smacked but had a few family problems when growing up ,And she speaks to my sis like that, But never in my presence,It is total lack of respect,We all have some issues in our lives but to speak to your mum or dad with such venom is shameful
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if it was my son i probably wouldve kicked him out
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