Men: Would you date a woman with three children by three different men? Why or why not?
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ANSWERS: 44
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I'm not real hooked up on how many kids and how many baby daddies there are if I love and want to be with that person.
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My ex-wife has two children with two different men(one of which is mine) and two step-children with her current man, and I don't think any less of her, so why not?
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Humm... I may get yelled at for answering this but I would have a ton of questions before dating. More like we could be friends first. The answer is not a No but its not a Yes either. A few of the questions/situations (they are half serious). - Are all three of the other men gone (married had a child and then passed-on)? If yes then I dont see why not it would depend on age of everyone. Unless *thinking* maybe she killed them then its a No haha just kidding. - Did she get married and then have a kid after a while they got divorced (happening three times)? I would really only date if I think a serious relationship might happen. I would not want to be Ex Husband number 4. - Many more questions I wont ask.
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Not very likely, there doesn't seem to be much sense of commitment there. I'd be concerned with how soon she'd lose interest with me and start looking for baby-daddy number 4.
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No, I don't like kids.
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no, I could be father number 4.
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Honestly, probably not. To me, that indicates a lack of commitment, lack of planning, or, in the extreme, a severe lack of responsibility and mindfulness.
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No - obviously she is not ready to settle down and I like permanence in my relationships.
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Entirely to much drama and baggage for me.
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Hell to the nah...Already thats shows that she is not committed to realationships...either that or she is just falling for the wrong guys but after twice you would think she would learn huh?
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Ha, no. Some men may do that, however I have common sense, I would have to say no.
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Sure, although the kids come with the package -- as long as I love the woman for who she is and the kids are recieving child support from their fathers then I can see myself dating her and being the kids step-dad...
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One of my old bf's had a mother like this. She had three kids all with different father's. It totally screwed up my ex; and he said she had been married 6 times and had 18 bf's. I think it shows that she has a lack of respect for not only herself; but for men. So in my opinion, I don't think a man should date a woman like this.
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Nope, there is obviously some issues there. Three kids by one man? I would do.
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It depends. If any of the children's fathers are insecure and prone to being assholes then probably not. Other than that no I would have no issues with dating a woman with 3 kids from 3 different dads's
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I have a child with someone that has three kids by three dads. i am the father of her second child. since my daughter was born i can name over 10 guys she has had sex with. that is not including the ones i dont know about.
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no. the facts are self explanatory
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Sticking my womanly nose in here...can I suggest **2** kinds of protection here?
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I have two kids by two men and I am a very responsible parent when it comes to my children. I don't pin my kids on any man. I was in a 4-year relationship and even though we seperated for the time being, I am a woman who can say was faithful and I was committed. I am quite upset about how many people think that the female is the one that has the problems, the men do as well... Geez come on people! Go OBAMA!
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Yes. Who's to say she didn't get involved with three different losers.
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Does not say much for her reputation, does it? Its kind of like a dog in heat. Just remember, these are the only three you know about.
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Depends on her and how respectful the other dudes be to me. Im hoping they are involved with the children lives so when you date someone with three different baby daddies sometimes you can have fraction which in my case leads to head cracking even though I try not be as confrontational or resort to violence. So she would have to be respectful and keep them other dudes out my face.
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I would date her but not seriously. And I'd make sure she was on birth control.
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If I was a guy: .... no.... I wouldn't want to take on the responsibility of another man's kid.
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No, three is just to much, and a pattern is pretty evident.
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That's a 'NO'.
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I would not. The fact is, its in the realm of possibility that I would, but in general, if this is all the information I have about her, then all the information I have about her is really bad! So as the question is put, no, absolutely not. Her pattern is that she has children by men, collects child support, and she is basically a professional child support collecter. But if I found out more details about her situation, like she had 3 different children by 3 different men, all she was married in each case, and by tragic accident she is a 3 time widower...she never divorced even once. And she's nice, and couldn't be funnier, and... you expand on this fictional scenario a little bit, then of course....just having 3 kids by 3 different men, does not disqualify her.
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Im not a guy... but trust me men... steer clear of Fertile Myrtle! She has been around quite enough and needs to move on to older widowed men with lower expectations! Unless of course you WANT to go on Maury Povitch?
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NO, 1)I want a clean relationship 2)Its kinda freaky :-s
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it depends on her lifestyle now and how judgmental you are...nine times out of ten, if you are even asking that question then you have an issue with it and your answer should be no. Some people make mistakes in their life and change, some people make the same mistakes over and over, so the real question is, DO YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT THIS WOMAN AND FEEL LIKE THIS TIME AROUND SHE MIGHT ACTUALLY BE TRYING TO DO THINGS RIGHT. Only God knows her circumstances and why she eneded up where she was, but like i said, if you are questioning it, then you already know you have a problem with it and maybe you need to find someone who is more "up to your standard"
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Nope... Look at her track record, and I wouldn’t want to be number 4...
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well, at least you know she "puts-out". :p
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In the words of DR Phil...lol If they will do it for you they will do it to you. Sounds like she has done that a few times with others..
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if she is Demi moore then YES
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Iam with a woman that has 3 children by 2 different men.Longest marriage lasting 7 years.She cheated on both of them.Now she is pregnant with my child and neither fathers pay child support that falls on me.Guess it all depends on how stupid you are and how much you can deal with.
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why do women think they are so out of it when they have three kids by different dads some men only go with women for one thing and when they leave it in to soak and the women get pregnant they move on so i cant see why they are hard on them selves and the awnser to your question is yes i would because it some times is not the womans fault
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No. Three different male parents would send me the other direction. This has all the implications of a prostitute.
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I wouldn't care about her past if I liked her.
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im a woman, and if I had to date a man in that situation. It would be a no. Why, cause it would be like dating him and all his other 3 exes particularily if hes involved with the kids, and hopefully he is involved with his kids. Imagine every time the phone rings its one of the exes. I'm a single mom to one, and I still feel its in inconvenience for a potential br, so, or husband to have to deal with me dealing with an ex over our kid, cause if its complicated, it can get burdensome and annoying.
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It depends on her and how old the kids are. if they're all under 3 walk on lady, but if they're spread out I might DATE her and see where it goes from there. It doesn't automatically make a lack of anything except perhaps judgment. A LOT of guys now seem to think it's a good thing to leave their scent trail everywhere they go. I sure as hell wouldn't raise another mans kids, house and feed them and do all the dad things while he just pops back in and out of their lives to "PLAY" daddy because then i would just have to take his head off or their heads off. As far as I'm concerned these "play" daddys out there deserve nothing more or less than a bullet between the ears. You KNOW who you are too you low life pieces of shit.
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Sure! She's likely very affectionate! ;-)
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Hell no!! She obviously isn't very brite allowing herself to become pregnant with all these different guys. Sounds like she is squirting them out before she even knows if the relationship is going to work. Also very unfair to the children.
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I am a mother of 3 kids by 3 different men but it doesn't mean that I had commitment problems it means things didn't work out. As for my 1st child I was 17 and stupid but I was married to my 2nd childs dad for 8 years of abuse and couldn't take it no more so I got out. My 3rd baby daddy I was with for 4 years and he was just childish I couldn't take him doing things and not thinking about me or his child. I've learned my lesson though cause I have my tubes tied and will not have a child by another worthless amn with issues.
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Nope. At my age (21), baggage is a deal breaker.
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