The other day i kissed a married man he told me he liked me for ages but i have a bf of 5 years now i can't get him out my head. Anyone have any ideas how i can get him out my head? I do like him so i really don't know what to do? I also gave him a hand
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paisley girl
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Sweetie, if I could reach through the computer I would try to slap some sense into you. Honestly, would you want to be with a man who is married and kisses another woman and permits the other woman to hold and stimulate his sex organ to orgasm? Would you ever be able to trust a man like this if you did ever hook up with him. Don't you think you would be constantly wondering if he is doing stuff like this with other women behind your back? He is not worthy of your thoughts. You are not married but he is, he should have more respect for his wife and more self-control. He should never allowed himself to be in a position with a woman other than his wife where things could have turned sexual. You need to get back with your boyfriend and see if you can make things work with him. Please see some kind of therapist or counselor. For your sanity, please distance yourself from this married man.
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Just think of it this way: If his own wife shouldn't be able to trust him, why should you?
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I know i have called a counciler but i was hoping to get over this myself as i feel like i am depressed after doing it. I know he would do it to as well im not silly that way. I said youmake a habit of this and he said no this is the first time. I have took his number out my phone that was step 1 now i need to get him out my head which is goign to be hard
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if its just sexual, thats one thing, but it seems like ur emotionally involved...he wont be fulfilling ur emotional needs, period. this is whats in it 4 u realistacally...ur own misery or happiness is in ur hands
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Haha. You have a lot of Hell to go through yet. And you deserve every bit of it. Haha.
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Go with your boyfriend; Do something magical take a trip or something then he will be in your head and not this other guy.
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You are playing a dangerous game girl. Get away from this loser fast, and use better judgement next time. Feel sorry for his wife. She is married to the dip-weed. That thought should help you clear your foggy little brain.
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how about just saying no!! that way, no one gets hurt. Either break up with you boyfriend and see this other man or don't break up with your boyfriend and don't see the other guy, pretty simple!
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I wouldn't go there if I were you ,men only want what they can get .so I tell you graud your heart .because it's going to hurt like hell.trying to get out !DON"T DO IT .DON"T GO THERE...........
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every time you think of him, think of the opposite like, how much of your life you lived without ever having heard of him or how you really don't need him at all
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get to know his wife
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FORGET entering into a relationship with a married man, he IS NOT leaving his wife, TRUST ME, no matter what he tells you, it's only because you want to hear it, don't lose a good thing with your BF of 5 years. I've been there, I'm 45, trust me, GO NO FURTHER! TIME WILL GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HEAD>>>>
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Go for it. He's not really committed, or else he would have married her and put a ring on her finger.
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Try shaking your head vigorously from side to side. If that fails, hit your head real hard against a wall
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You sound perfect for each other! Two cheaters in love!
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You could have a fling with him. Just keep it to yourselves. Understand that he's not leaving his wife, and that, most important, you don't want him to do so.
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he'll say anything to get more sex out of you. try imagining his wife coming over to your job/house and shooting you in the head...you NEVER know who's man you're f***** he's obviously not worth this or you wouldnt be feeling bad about yourself
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cheat on both,and make sure they dont find out,even though men dont have emotions so does nt really matter if they did find out
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You gave him a hand? Doing what? Running errands? That was nice of you.
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TBH if hes marryed hes a cheat and a cheat is alway a cheat. My autie was going out with a marryed man and she left his wife for her. "Good yeh? I mean some guys just leave you waiting for year." They've been together for 10 year and she just found out he's doing the same thing again, he's got a girl and now is leaving my autie for this other girl. So think bout it. Also if you don't feel anything for your bf of 5 year maybe you shouldn't be with him. Well maybe you do still do feel things for him BUT if you can't get a guy out of your head maybe your, not happy withyour bf. I hope I've helpped...
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Don't see him again. Think about your own relationship and why you did this, think about the person you want to be.
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He has a wife. It's your duty to leave him alone. There's no need for anyone to inspire you or convince you to do what you know is right.
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OMG, I did the same thing last weekend with a married man who is a close friend of mine. I feel guilty still and cannot seem to be able to think of anything else because all I seem to feel is regret. I too am attracted to this man, but I feel that it cannot go anywhere because... he's married! We were both under the influence of alcohol when it happened, but that is NOT an excuse! All I have been able to think about is what happened and how badly I wish that it had not. I did not let him get very far, sexually, it was merely a makeout session. Well, that is still bad, but it went no further than kissing and touching. Everytime he touched me, I would pull away because in the back of my mind, I knew it was wrong. If I could take it back, I would in a heart beat. I feel terrible for putting myself, him, and especially his wife in this situation! Don't let yourself be pulled into something so silly as getting involved in a relationship with a married man. If all you feel now is guilt/regret, imagine how you will feel when you realize that it eventually can go nowhere!
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Well, I hope the wife finds out. She deserves to know her husband is in love with other girls.
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You gave him a hand????????
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you are discusting i would never forgive you.you will reck and destroy this family.
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You gave him a hand...what?
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How to get him out of your head? Try using a fork you slut!
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Morality?????????
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I think you are playing with fire and everybody going to get burn. You need to leave him alone. Dont pursue anything further with him at all.
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oh, i don't know whaere to start with this question- LEAVE him alone! thats a good start. ok, just to tell you that you can be the biiger person here and walk away. He is no prize to go after and he has no morals,heart,values and he will hurt you and his family. He will use you and throw you away. Think better of yourself, and don't become what he is, you are so much better than that.If he is willing to do what he is doing to his family what kind of person do you think he is and what kind of life would you live? Sin, hurt, betrall, no trust, how could you live with yourself and how could you destroy someone's heart that you have been in a faithfull loving 5 years with. Step back look at the life you have now with this guy and look at the life you would have with this cheating, selfish jerk, he will do it back on you if you go with him. Believe me from experince iam the wife of the husband who he cheated on-it is a lifetime of hurt. good luck and please walk away, memories and feelings fade but guilt and regret is forever.
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just like i said in another question, if a married man/wife is willing to cheat on his spouse, he'll do it to another person and i see that alot. men/women have affairs and the (no offense) 'homewreckers' as they call it thinks that they will be faithful to them...just like what TALIMZE said. If his own wife shouldn't be able to trust him, why should you?
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Try to distract yourself -- maybe do something really great with your boyfriend. Take something you've been wanting to do for a long time -- I dunno, a trip or going to some restaurant, whatever -- and do it (and hopefully have a good time enough to forget about him at least temporarily); also, a counselor might help. Keep busy, do things like exercise, or write poetry, or paint... good luck, I hope you feel better and the situation evens out.
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tmi
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"Can't get him out of your head" is infatuation. You miss that feeling, he misses it too that's why you're fooling around. That's exactly why people start looking around and getting ideas. But it's only infatuation meaning it won't last...where do you want to be then?
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First of all, he is married. Second of all, you had a boyfriend of 5 years when you asked this question. Who knows if you're still with him? Anyway, get your priorities straight and keep your hands (and lips) OFF married men.
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u should go 4 it or u will regret it later,u clearly dont love your boyfriend anymore and should breakup with him
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I would LOVE for you to finish your question. :-)
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To get him out of your head a good first step would be to keep his d*ck out of your hand. Just a suggestion.
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Gee, I wish i was your bf of 5 yrs and just read this online for the whole world to read. Do you know how proud I would be of you? I might buy you a golden ring and string of pearls just so I could smile at you as I was wrapping them around your neck to watch your eyeballs bulge out as you gasped for your last breath ever. You are aware now that he could find these comments and might have already.. So there goes 5 yrs down the shitter.. Thanks sweety.... urmmmmmm.....
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well you shouldn't go around kissing a married man and of course he shouldn't have kissed you either. the forbidden always seems to be so exciting. even if you didn't have a bf, do you want to be responsible for possibly breaking up his marriage.
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