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at the moment my dad is probably wishing i was never born because all he does it moan at me and i get crap foe everything. anyway im going back to my flat tonight
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About the same, sadly.
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I was not the best child, but, I do see genuine joy in my mother's eyes when she sees me. I've brought her joy, and I've broken her heart. (by joining the Marine Corps). My parents (as all good parents) had to sacrifice much to keep me fed, clothed, and out of trouble. The only thing that their sacrifice has earned them, is a loyal boy who will take care of them when they are old. My short answer would be: They would have a lot more money and toys. They would have had a LOT less stress over the last 40 years, but they wouldn't have a grown man that is crazy about them.
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I'm sure they would of been the same boohoos that they are now. Either way what do I care - It was their decision.
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My mother would be alive.
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Not really. I didn't really cause much major trouble as a child. I just sort of stood by and watched while everything fell apart. Of course, they're lives couldn't really be any *worse* than they are now, so I would imagine that they'd be better off without me to support.
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Being an only child, they would be much richer than they are now and have far less stress. Their life would be great but unfulfilling.
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my parents lives would be a lot simpler if i was never born. :)
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My parents would still be divorced ,andm my dad still would be an alcoholic.
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They would probably be happier. My dad would have no child, just like he wanted, and my mum would have still had a little girl with Katie. My mum would now be able to up and leave and live out her dreams, which I know she longs to do but can't because I am here. I'm pretty sure my dad would be married to some woman, perhaps with the son he wanted if he had to have kids. They would both have more money, more free time and less of a problem child on their hands to deal with. Really, all round, it would of been best if I hadn't of been born at all
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Who am I to question something like that?
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They may be very happy i think
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Pretty much the same. I'm one of four and if I hadn't been born they'd just have had another kid a few months before or after.
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I am the eldest child and the reason they got married in the first place. My father resented this fact as long as I can remember. If they'd never had me they probably wouldn't have married - and gone on to find other partners and had a relatively happy life.
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I don't know. Depends if you mean that I died before I could be born, or if my mother was never impregnated. I think my mom would have never met my step dad and that her life wouldn't be so happy and that my dad well, a lot more marriages and divorces. I don't know, I'm probably wrong. More than likely.
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Pretty desultory i think. They are such wonderful people and both of them love us kids like hell. We cant do without them and neither can they. Check out http://birthdayecards.blogspot.com for some lovely e-cards and birthday wishes.
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A lot easier!
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Since I was sent away to school at such a young age i hardly think they would have noticed very much. My parents were divorced when i was nine months old My father was just a distant figure his students probably knew him much better than myself, since I was a very quiet retiring child So I would imagine until I got married and was at University and then the birth of my son whom my Mother adored. They really hardly knew I was about
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Very dull. i brought a lot of life and laughter into my parents life. being a drummer in a rock and roll band, brightened their life and boosted mine. we complimented each other. How do i know all of this? My parent have told me so. Yes, i was blessed.
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I believe with 4 siblings, each with their own need, it would not matter. Funny, I remember running away at like 7 and hiding in the shrubs, thinking "they will miss me and eb upset and notice me." I went home (got dark LOL) and my family was eating dinner and never said a word to me, or ask where I was etc. I was just another mouth to feed. But I learned from their mistakes and still to this day, I tell my sons I appreciate and love them etc. So its ok
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A little different, but not much since I'm just one of six siblings.
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I think I was the straw to break the camel's back. If I weren't around, maybe my parents would have been able to save their marriage and enjoy life more with just two children. Of course, my mom wouldn't laugh until she cries because I wouldn't be here to grant her that minute of forgetting about the world's problems, but I'm sure she'd love to still have her first love in her life.
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i was adopted so to my adopted parents i don't think it would have mattered, they would have gotten someone else to my birth parents, it probably would have made my mom's life much easier, i don't know that my father cares either way
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I am the last of six children, so I doubt their lives would have been much different although I would like to think that I made their lives sweeter!
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They'd still be hippies
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If I were never born, I would have no parents, so could not be in a position to answer this question. ;)
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A hell of a lot better off! They died when I was about 11 years old! My Mom commited suicide and my Dad just gave up! I think if they wouldn't have adopted me they would have been better off! I don't think I brought them much joy at all.
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Not very different, though my father might have been slightly happier.
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Very boring.
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about the same since I am the 5th of 6 children
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To be honest, I think their life’s would have been so empty, that is why God give me to them, we had our ups and downs, but like my dad said one day, he will not change his family for anything else in the world. Now that is love...
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I am the last of five children, four older sons and I came at the end. My parents always told me growing up that I gave them more grief than all the boys put together, Now after all these years they say I give them more joy than all the boys put together. I give them the love and emotional support they need as they age so I know the role I play in their lives has been a big one. They would be very sad without me.http://www.audreymarlene-lifecoach.com/
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Fewer gray hairs.
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probably worse off.
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about the same, bitter divorced couple that still bicker like theyre married. And my dad would have finished high school if my sister and I came along.
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Better..
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Just as hectic considering they had 4 other girls as well.
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Not a lot different , they would still have divorced.
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Probably a lot less stressful :) I'm the youngest, so I can see it being drastically different.
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I think my Mom would have been either a singer, a veterinarian, a model or a Mom to someone else. My father? I don't really know.
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it will be even better
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My father would have continued his carpentry business, and my mother would have continued her college education to become a dietician.
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It's not how their life would have been. It how would my life turned out if they weren't my parent because all they did was beat me.
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pretty sure they would be rich. Living in a big house, probally close to the city Mum would the skinney AND they would have no pets =]
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They would be missing something special.....
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Boring:) and sad cause then they'd never have my two kids in their life, their grandchildnre, whom they adore more then anything on earth=)
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i think my little brother still would've been born.
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honestly? i think it'd be perfect.
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Different.
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I think that if i was not born my parents would not be leaving happily.
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Better. My mom would have gotten a divorce and have been able to live with freedom. I'm the reason she never left my dad. She told me my kids come first then my freedom. Too bad.
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I just don't know....they never pursued a conversation of if I wasn't born...so i just don't know. But I would LIKE to think, that life would be total chaos without me =)
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my mom told me never wants to think about it not having me or my brothers
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They would have been a lot better off not having an extra big mouth to feed and they are still scraping by because of me.
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almost the same. My mother still would have died shortly after and my father would be exactly who he is
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My father died when I was 2 and I was my mom's and his only child together so in a way I'm the reminder of the love they shared and made together. My mom tells me all the time that I saved her since she had thoughts of ending her own life after my dad died and I was what stopped her. I carry on my dad's legacy and I'm the part of him my mother can hold on to. here's a pic of us when I was about two weeks old.
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A lot better, lol j/k.
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They wouldn't have had a built in babysitter.
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joyful
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I don't know how i think, but i know how they'd think...
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Better financially for sure.
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